Chapter 7 NARCISSISM

The basic human fault is not PRIDE but HUBRIS= NARCISSISM

root of the word NARCISSISM

Is the same root for the word NARCOTIC meaning-

NUMB

Narcissism is…

distortion imbalance addiction

Enneagram (any-ah-gram)

• Ennea = nine• Gram = writing/picture

You may use this diagram on the test

• Any and all notes will help on next week’s test.

Draw an enneagram

• Circle• Triangle• Numbers• Lines• Names

reformer

helper

climber

artistthinker

Teamplayer

sampler

boss

peacemaker

#1 Reformer – is orderly, logical…but

Reformer –but a perfectionist and judgmental

#2 the HELPER is generous and concerned, but…

HELPER – but possessive & manipulative

#3 The CLIMBER- is motivated, and competitive but…

THE CLIMBER – but too “image conscious”

#4 The ARTIST- creative and romantic, but…

ARTIST- , but too introverted and moody

#5 The THINKER- good observer, but

THE THINKER- , but a poor participant.

#6 THE TEAM PLAYER- loyal and dutiful, but…

TEAM PLAYER-, but too dependent & protective.

#7 The SAMPLER – spontaneous, but

The Sampler

The SAMPLER – but excessive and manic

The Sampler

#8 The BOSS – Decisive, confident but…

THE BOSS but a bit of a bully

#9 THE PEACEMAKER- mediator, but

PEACEMAKER… , but too passive

Strength/gift Strength/gift Weakness Weakness

1Reformer Well-organized

Keen on justice

Self-righteous Perfection

2.Helper Caring Generous Possessive manipulates

3.Climber Self-assured Competitive SelfAbsorbed

Hostile

4.Artist Creative Intuitive Introverted Depressive

5.Thinker Perceives Analyses Eccentric paranoid

6.Team Player Likable Dutiful Depends masochist

7.Sampler Accomplished Spontaneous Excessive manic

8.Boss Self-confident Forceful Combative vengeful

9.Peace-maker

Serene Reassuring Passive neglectful

TYPE Negative weakness/tendency

1.Reformer Puritanical/judgmental prig

2. Helper Possessive sap

3.Climber Image-conscious hustler

4. Artist Romantic Brooder

5. Thinker Aloof cynic

6.Team player Dependent follower

7.Sampler Hyperactive escapist

8. Boss Dominating bully

9.Peacemaker Withdrawn coward

Strength weakness

1Reformer

2.Helper

3.Climber

4.Artist

5.Thinker

6.Team Player

7.Sampler

8.Boss

9.Peace-maker

1.The reformer

Has objectivity

Lacks spontaneity

2.The helper

Has empathy

Lacks intuition

3.The climber

is assertive

Lacks loyalt

y

4.The artist

Has intuition

Lacks objectivity

5.The thinker

Good analy

sis

Poor decid

er

6. Team player

Has loyalt

y

Lacks serenity

7. The sampler

Has spontaneity

Lacks analys

is

8. The boss

Is decisive

Lacks empathy

9. The peacemaker

Has serenity

Isn’t assertive

type Strength/HAS

WeaknessLACKS

1.Reformer Objectivity Spontaneity

2. Helper Empathy Intuition

3. Climber Assertive Loyalty

4. Artist Intuition Objectivity

5. Thinker Analysis Decisive

6. Team player Loyal Serenity

7. Sampler Spontaneity Analysis

8. Boss Decisive Empathy

9. Peacemaker Serenity assertiveness

Strength/gift Strength/gift Weakness Weakness

1Reformer Well-organized

Keen on justice

Self-righteous Perfection

2.Helper Caring Generous Possessive manipulates

3.Climber Self-assured Competitive SelfAbsorbed

Hostile

4.Artist Creative Intuitive Introverted Depressive

5.Thinker Perceives Analyses Eccentric paranoid

6.Team Player Likable Dutiful Depends masochist

7.Sampler Accomplished Spontaneous Excessive manic

8.Boss Self-confident Forceful Combative vengeful

9.Peace-maker

Serene Reassuring Passive neglectful

Narcissism is…

distortion imbalance addiction

Wholeness/holiness is…

freedom

clarity

balance

type DOMINANT DESIRE (addiction)

1. reformer Wants to be RIGHT

2. Helper Wants to be LOVED

3. Climber Wants to be NOTICED

4. Artist Wants to be UNDERSTOOD

5.Thinker Wants to UNDERSTAND

6. Team Player Wants to BELONG

7.Sampler Wants to feel HAPPY

8.Boss Wants to be in CONTROL

9. Peacemaker Wants HARMONY

A D W

S 8 2 5

M 3 6 9

R 7 1 4

The seven deadly sins (+2)TYPE DEADLY SIN

1.Reformer Anger

2. Helper Pride

3. Climber Deceit

4. Artist Envy

5. Thinker Greed

6. Team player Fear

7. Sampler Gluttony

8. Boss Lust (for life)

9. Peacemaker SLOTH laziness

Wholeness/holiness is…

freedom

clarity

balance

Test next bring text for next fable…