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Chapter 10:Adult Relationships
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Friendships
Adult Process• acquaintanceship• buildup• continuation• deterioration• ending
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Friendship Themes
Affective Basis• self-disclosure• intimacy• appreciation• affection• support *Based on trust, loyalty, commitment*
Shared or communal nature Sociability - Compatibility
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Gender Differences
Women more intimate more emotional
sharing confide in others
Men more shared
interests more competitive competition
emphasizes social interaction rather than outcome
less intimate
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Cross-Gender Friendships
May explore opposite gender’s tasks or skills
Men may try to sexualize cross gender relationships
Women may be offended at this Decrease after marriage for men Increase with age for women
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Love Relationships
Liking I Infatuation P Empty Love C Romantic Love PI Fatuous Love P Companionate Love IC Consommate Love PIC
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Falling in Love
Assortative Mating
Similarity
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Murstein’s Theory on Falling in Love
Stimulus: Appearance complementary?
Values: Sex - Religion - Politics - Match?
Role: Relationship Communication Style Gender Role Match?
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Dark Side
Verbal Physical SevereAggression Aggression AggressionInsults Pushing BeatingSarcasm Shaking PunchingYelling Slapping Hitting w/Name Shoving object calling Bruising Bondage = MURDER
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Causes of Verbal Aggression
Need to control
Misuse of power
Jealousy
Family discord
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Causes of Physical Aggression
All of # 1 Causes plus … Accept violence as a means of
control Modeling of physical aggression Abused as child Aggressive personality style Alcohol abuse
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Causes of Severe Aggression
All of # 1 and # 2 plus … Personality D/O’s Emotional lability Poor self esteem
*Contributing factors: job stress and unemployment
*Battered Woman Syndrome
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Relationships
Single hood Cohabitation Gay and Lesbian couples Marriage
• early years• midlife• older couples
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Keeping Marriage Happy
Make time for each other Express love Be there in times of need Communicate positively + constructively Be interested in spouse’s life Confide in spouse Forgive minor offenses Try to understand major offenses
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Family Life Cycle Changes
Nuclear Family Extended Family Family Life Cycle (Weakness - ignores child
free relationships) Should we have children? Parental Role Single Parents Divorce - Why?
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Effects on Couple
Effects on young children
Effects on adult children
Remarriage