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Challenges to the Spirit
People Irritate
act rudely publicly
embarrass unfair /
unreasonable deceitful,
hypocritical break promises selfish, lazy at
work don’t pay debts
People Injure speak evil behind
back spread false
reports misrepresent exaggerate faults judge motives put evil
constructions on words and actions
Haughty, Proud lord it over disrespect authority selfish and rude - no
regard for neighbor self-willed – must
have own way
Vengeful, Malicious
return evil for evil hold a grudge act hatefully pleased when
others are in adversity
act in ill-will to those with honor & prosperity
Challenges to the Spirit
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How We Respond To Hurt…
Rumination – Thinking ourselves to death.
Retribution – I don’t get mad, I get even.
Repression – I’m fine, really. Just
fine.
Reconciliation – Forgiveness is the key.
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“The rule of an eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth cannot
sustain itself forever;
ultimately both parties end up
blind and toothless.”
~ Mahatma Gandhi
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God Loves To Forgive
Micah 7:18-19
18 Who is a God like You, pardoning iniquity and passing over the transgression of the remnant of His heritage? He does not retain His anger forever, because He delights in mercy.
19 He will again have compassion on us, and will subdue our iniquities. You will cast all our sins into the depths of the sea.
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God Loves To Forgive
Psalm 103:8-148 The Lord is merciful and gracious, slow to anger, and abounding in mercy... 10 He has not dealt with us according to our sins, nor punished us according to our iniquities. 11 For as the heavens are high above the earth, so great is His mercy toward those who fear Him; 12 As far as the east is from the west, so far has He removed our transgressions from us. 13 As a father pities his children, so the Lord pities those who fear Him. 14 For He knows our frame; He remembers that we are dust.
The Unforgiving Servant
1. We Are All Debtors (18:23-26)
18:23 – God will settle accounts with all men someday. (2 Cor. 5:10)
18:24 – Our debt for sin is unpayable. (Heb. 10:4; Rom. 4:1-2)
18:25 – Justice requires payment of all that can be paid – our very soul. (Rom. 6:33)
18:26 – Without mercy we are helpless and without hope. (Rom. 5:6; Eph. 2:12)
The Unforgiving Servant
2. God Is Compassionate and Merciful (18:27)
God does not want us to be separated from Him forever.
God mercifully provides for our forgiveness (while demonstrating His perfect justice - Rom. 3:26)
The Unforgiving Servant
3. God Requires Us to be Merciful to Our Fellow Man (18:28-30)
18:28 – The forgiven slave is harsh to
his fellow debtor slave.
18:29 – His fellow slave pleads for mercy.
18:30 – He gives him justice, not mercy.
The Unforgiving Servant
4. God’s Wrath Is Upon the Unmerciful (18:31-35)
18:31 – His fellow slaves see his lack of mercy and it grieves them.
18:32-34 – His Master carries out the original just punishment.
18:35 – The Lesson: God will not forgive us unless we forgive our brother from our heart. (Matt. 5:7)
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Two Aspects Of Forgiveness
God so loved the world that He
gave His only Son (God’s heart). Jesus died for us
while we were yet sinners (Christ’s heart).
But our sins were forgiven AFTER we repented and obeyed the gospel (the
necessary process).
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Forgive Like the Lord
Colossians 3:13…forgiving one another, if anyone has a complaint against another; even as Christ forgave you, so you also must do.
Ephesians 4:32Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and evil speaking be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you.
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“Heart” Forgiveness
Luke 23:34 - Jesus“Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do.”
Acts 7:60 - Stephen“Lord, do not hold this sin against them!”
Mark 11:25“Whenever you stand praying, forgive, if you have anything against anyone, so that your Father who is in heaven will also forgive you your transgressions.”
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A Heart Willing to Forgive
The ONLY way relationships can be
maintained in families or churches is for us to have a
heart that is willing to forgive.
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A Heart Problem
Instead of resolving relationship problems
we tend to harbor resentments and hold
grudges.
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Man’s Great Challenge
Difficult
1. The forgiving heart we have for one who repeatedly hurts us and repents each time.
Jesus’ Warning About Stumbling Blocks – Luke 17:1-5
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Man’s Great Challenge
More Difficult
2. The forgiving heart we have for one who does not ask for forgiveness, does not repent, and keeps doing us wrong.
Jesus’ Sermon on the Plain
Luke 6:27-38
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Man’s Great Challenge
Most Difficult
3. The forgiving heart we have for someone who does not ask for it, does not repent, keeps hurting us, and mocks us for even offering it.
Jesus’ Prayer on the Cross
Luke 23:34
Applications in the Home
We see frailties and weaknesses and errors in family members repeatedly.
It’s easy for repetitive behaviors to get under our skin.
“It’s been long enough! They ought to know better!”
“I’ve seen this kind of behavior too long and I’VE HAD IT!”
Applications in the Church
Suffer long with personalities of others
Suffer long with weaknesses of others
Suffer long with poor judgment of others
Suffer long with poor handling of matters
Suffer long with impositions put upon you
Suffer long with everything in everybody (restore those caught in sin)
How Do We Respond?
Hateful comments
Sarcastic remarks
Arguing
Yelling
Apathy
Where is the fruit of the Spirit?
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Remedies To Bitterness
1. We are to quickly resolve our anger before we develop a bitter heart.• Ephesians 4:26-27 is a serious
warning. Unresolved anger gives the devil a foothold. He can attack every area of our lives and strangle the spiritual life right out of us.
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Remedies To Bitterness
2. We are to do good to those who hurt us. • This is NOT optional; it is a
command.
• We must let God provide His justice in His time.
Luke 6:27-28 Romans 12:17-21
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Remedies To Bitterness
3. We are to follow God’s ways of handling problems.
We must not talk with others about how someone has hurt us. That is called tale-bearing or gossip.
We must either cease to dwell on our hurt, or resolve issues scripturally.
Matthew 18:15-17; Matthew 5:24
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Remedies To Bitterness
4. We are to admit our sin in allowing a root of bitterness to grow in us.• When we harbor resentment in our
heart toward those who hurt us, we are just as guilty as they are in the eyes of the Lord.
• Our soul can be in danger. 1 John 1:9