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CELIBATE GENITALITY:
DEFENSE MECHANISM
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• PROCESS BY WHICH WE PROTECT OURSELVES AGAINST
UNPLEASANT OR ANXIOUS FEELINGS THAT TEND TO
EXPOSE AN UNACCEPTABLE PART OF OURSELVES. IT CAN
BE NORMAL OR MAD. THE YCLOSE US TO EXPERIENCESAND THEREBY DECREASE OUR FREEDOM AND CREATIVE
CONTROL OF LIFE, AND THEY IMPEDE PERSONAL AND
INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION SO THAT WE ARE APT
NOT TO UNDERSTAND OURSELVES AND OTHERS AS WELL
AS WE SHOULD.
• DEFENSE TEND TO BE SELF-REINFORCING. THE MORE WE
USE THEM, THE EASIER IT GETS AND THE MORE DIFFICULT
IT IS TO CHANGE.
• DEFENSES EXACT A PRICE. WE WASTE TIME AND ENERGYTO NON-PRODUCTIVE AND REPETITIOUS BEHAVIOR IN
TRYING TO WHAT AND WHO WE REALLY ARE NOT
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• DEFENSES ARE NOT ONLY PAINFUL TO US, BUT ARE
FREQUENTLY IRRITATING AND HARMFUL TO OTHERS. THE
USE OF THEM MAKES US LIKELKY TO MANIPULATE
OTHERS TO SATISFY OUR NEEDS AND LESS LIKELY TO BE
SUFFICIENTLY FLEXIBLE AND OPEN TO UNDERSTAND ANDCARE FOR OTHERS.
• A PRIMARY REASON IS TO WARD OFF ANXIETY THAT IS THE
RESULT OF UNACCEPTABLE EXPERIENCES. Exa!"#: W#
$#%#&$ '()*#"+#* aa&* #&a" %##"&* /#0a(*# 1#/#0'# a&x'(*, a*2a#$, $#!)#**#$ ') ("3 12#& 1# %##"
*#x(a". I * *#"%-$#%#a&.
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KINDS OF DEFENSES• REPRESSION:
T' 1a)$ '%% a&x#3 2a * #+'4#$ /3 (&a00#!a/"# *#x(a"3
5 1a3*: N' /#& 0'&*0'(* '% 0#)a& #x!#)#&0#* a&$ & &' /#&
0'&*0'(*"3 a1a)# '% /#& a1a)#
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!#$# '!!')(&#* %') )'12
R#!)#**#$ *#x(a" #)3 a)# &' & *#)+0# ' 2#a"2 8 /#0'&
%)(*)a#$, ))a#$ a&$ a&)3 A/*'"(# )#!)#**'& '% *#x(a"3 * (&02a*# /#0a(*# * !()# a&$
$*)#*!#0%(" ' *#"% a&$ '2#)* 8 a $#&a" '% 2(a& #/'$#&.
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DENIAL
A )#%(*a" ' a$ 2a 0#)a& %a0* ') a0'&* #x*
A )#9#0'& '% '/+'(* #+$#&0#
RATIONALIATION
I))a'&a" 1a3 '% (*& )a'&a"3
T' )3 ' a/*a& %)' 0'&%)'&& 2# )#a" **(# a&$ a#! ' #x!"a& a&$
9(*%3 2# 1a3 1# %##" ') /#2a+# 12 !#)*'&a" a&$ *'0a""3 a00#!a/"#
)#a*'&*
T)3 ' &;# 2# !'**/"# ') )#a" #%%#0* '% #&a"3 8 6I& *#)+0# '%
"'+# ') a& #x!)#**'& '% )(# %)#&$*2!7
Exa!"#: A &*#) 0'(&*#"#$ a "'"3 *#x(a""3 %)(*)a#$ 1'a&. D()&
2# &a" *#**'&, 2# 1a* (&$#)*a&$& a&$ '(02#$ 2#) *2'("$#)<
$()& 2# *#0'&$ *#**'&, 2# #/)a0#$ 2a 1'a& a*a $#'&*)a'& '%
2* 0a)#. D()& 2# 2)$ *#**'&, 2# 2#"$ 2#) "'&#) a&$ 2a$ 2#) * '& 2*
"a!====..
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FANTASY
B#0'#* ')# !')a& 2a )#a"3 ') )#!"a0#* )#a"3
Exa!"#: A a& 12' 2a* a&3 #&a" %a&a*#*, *#"$' a!!)'a02#* !#'!"# &
)#a"3, a&$ )a)#"3 a4#* 2#a"23 *#&*# '% 2*>2#) #&a"3 Fa&a*#* '%%#) 2# ""(*'& '% &a# %("%"#& 12'( )*4, )#*!'&*/"3
a&$ "* 8 #"##&* '% )#a" &a03
INSULATION
W2#& 1# !)'#0 '()*#"+#* aa&* 2() a&$ $*a!!'&#& /3 &' a""'1&
'()*#"+#* ' 0a)# +#)3 (02. T' /# (&&+'"+#$ &*#a$ '% /#& 1a) a&$ a!!)'a02a/"#, 1# )#a& 0'"$ a&$
$#a02#$ ' !)'#0 '()*#"+#* %)' #''&a" &+'"+##& #*!#0a""3 *#x(a"
&+'"+##& ? a 0'"$ a&$ "%#"#** !#)*'&@
I& a#! ' $#%#&$ aa&* #&a"3, 1# a3 "'*# '() *!)(a"3. B#0a(*#
0a)& 2 a0+a# *'# #&a" %##"&*, 1# &*("a# '()*#"+#* a&$
2#)#%')# +'"a# *!)(a"3 8 LOVE. T2(* /'2 *!)(a"3 a&$ #&a"3 a)#
&(/#$ a&$ "%# /#0'#* %"a, !a2#0, "#** 02a""#&& a&$ "a04& &
#&2(*a
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ISOLATION
T' 0( '()*#"+#* '%% %)' *#x(a" *(a'&* 2a !)'$(0# *)#**
T' 12$)a1 %)##"3 %)' a *(a'& 0a& /# 2#a"23, /( ' /# 0'!#""#$
' *'"a# '()*#"+#* %)' a&3 *#x(a""3 *("a& *(a'& * &'2#a"23
Ma3 &+'"+# )#'+& '()*#"+#* !23*0a""3 %)' a)#a* '% *#x(a"
$*0'%') /3 12$)a1& ') )#%(*& ' 0'&&(# a& a0+3 2a
#+'4#* a&x#3
Exa!"#: N' ' /# &+'"+#$ 12 2# '2#) *#x /#0a(*# #+'4#**#x(a" %##"&*. S#"$' % #+#) 2a+# 2##)'*'0a" 0'&a0 /#0a(*# '%
%#a)* '% /#& *#x(a""3 *("a#$.
T' $**'0a# #(a""3 !')a& /( ((a""3 #x0"(*+# +a"(#*: A&
*'"a'& '% +a"(#* %)' a0+#*>)#a"3
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REGRESSION
A )#+#)*'& ' a0+#* 2a 1#)# ')# a!!)'!)a# a
#a)"#) *a#* '% $#+#"'!#&
W2#& a *(a'& /#0'#* '' 2)#a#&& ')'+#)12#"&, 1# a3 )#)#** ' a "#+#" 12#)# 1# %##" 1#
2a+# ""# ') &' )#*!'&*/"3 ') ' a # 12#& 1# %#"
')# *#0()#
Exa!"#: A$'"#*0#& a&) & *#x(a" a)#a "4# 0'&*a&"&, *'!2'')0 4$$& a&$ 0)($# 9'4&
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PROECTION A& a#! ' a&a& *#"%-#*## a&$ a$#(a03 /3 /"a& '2#)* %')
'() *a4#* ') /3 !(& ' '2#) '() '1& (&a00#!a/"# %##"&*
a&$ !("*#*.
DISPLACEMENT S102& 2# #x!)#**'& '% %##"&* %)' 2# #"0& !#)*'& ' *'#
'2#) "#** )*43 !#)*'& ') '/9#0
T()&& ' !)'*(#* %)' *#x(a" )a%0a'&, $*!"a0# %##"&* %') a
!#)*'& & a*()/a')3 a0+#*, '+#)#a& ') '+#)*"##!&
I&*#a$ '% %a0& *#x(a"3, 2#3 $*!"a0# 2# *#x(a" #)3 '& '2#)
a0+#* 2a $' &' !)''# 2#a"23 )'12
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COMPENSATION
O+#)-)#a0& ' a4# (! '% %') )#a" ') a$ &a$#(a03
N' ' a))3 /#0a(*# 2#3 %##" *#x(a""3< /#0'# *#-0#"/a#*
12' %)#(#&"3 #&a# & #&a" /#2a+')
G#&a" 0'&(#** a)# '+#)-0'!#&*a'&* %') 2#) %##"&* '%
*#x(a" &%#)')3
Ca& /# $#0#!+# /#0a(*# '& 2# *()%a0# 2#3 a3 "''4 "4#
*#x(a""3 a0+# ') '!#& ' !#'!"#, /( a0(a""3 2#3 %##" +#)3
&%#)') a&$ '' a%)a$ ' *())#&$#) & "'+& #&a"3 M$$"#-a#$ #& )#)#** ' !"a3/'3 a0+#* ' 0'!#&*a# %')
"a04 '% a()# *#x(a" $#&3.
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REACTION FORMATION
T' )#!"a0# (&a00#!a/"# ()#* 12 0'!"##"3 '!!'*# /#2a+') a&$
'%#&#* 0'))#*!'&$&"3 &'"#)a& a($#*.
P#'!"# 12' ' ' ' #x)## '%#& %##" 2# '!!'*# 1a3 12&
2#*#"+#*
S#x(a" !)($#* a)# '%#& 22"3 *#x(a". P#'!"# 12' a)# '' 1""& '
0'&$#& *#x(a" a0+#* a&$ 12' #a#)"3 +'"(&##) ' /# 0'(&3
*#x 0#&*')* a3 # +0a)'(* a&$ '%#& $)#0 *a*%a0'& %)' 2#)0#&*')&.
T' "#a$ 0#"/a# "+#* /#0a(*# 2#3 a)# a%)a$ ' %a0# 2#) '1& #&a"3.
C#"/a03 ' 2# * &'&-#&a" 8 1a3 '% 0'!&.
C'&)'" (&a00#!a/"# *#x(a" %##"&* '1a)$ 2# '2#) *#x /3 /#0'&
'+#) &+'"+#$ 12 2# *a# *#x. S&0# 2#) &+'"+##& a3 &0"($##&a" %##"&* a&$ )a&*')3 #&a" /#2a+') *(02 !#)*'&* $#&%3
2#*#"+#* '1a)$ 2# '2#) *#x.
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UNDOING T#&$ ' /# !#)%#0'&*, *0)(!("'(* a&$ !)' ' ("
Exa!"#: F##" 0'!#""#$ ' 0'&%#** ') $' !#&a&0# /3 #a&* '% !#)%#0 )(a".
A'#& * &a(2#&0 /#0a(*# )#* ' a&a& a *#x(a" *a&$ 2a * &'
2#a"23
SYMPATHISM T)3& ' # '2#)* %##" *'))3 %') 2# a&$ ' *(!!') 2#
T)3 ' )(& %)' *#x(a" a1a)#** /3 a"1a3* 0'!"a&& a/'( 2*>2#) !)'/"#*
ACTING OUT
A )a%0a'& '% #$*
A !)'0#** '% $*!#""& a&$ )#$(0& !)#**()# /3 a0& & a $*a!!)'+#$ a&) Exa!"#: ' '& *!)##* '% *#x(a" %a&a*3, !')&')a!20 )#a$& a&$ a*()/a'&
8 ' "#**#& #&a" #&*'&
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POSITIVE PSYCHOLOGICAL WAYS OF
COPING
SUPPRESSION
C'&*0'(* ') %)## a1a)#** '% a& #x!#)#&0# 2a * 4#!
%)' '+#) #x!)#**'&
M')%0a'&: A 6&'7 2a * /a*#$ '& a %(&$a#&a" 63#*7
A %)## a&$ '%#& 0'&*0'(* $#0*'&
A *#"%-a%%)a'& a&$ %)## 02'0# 2a !)''#* 2#a"23 "+&
Pa&%(", /( * $#a2 2a 0a& !)''# "%# '% "'+#. A 0a"" %')
$*0!" 8 '& 2# /a** '% %)##$'. M'+##& %)')#!)#**'& ' *(!!)#**'&
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D()& 2* )a&*'&a" #, a !#)*'& a3 #x!)#** a"'*
2# '!!'*# '% 2# !a* )#!)#**+# /#2a+'). H#"! #$#$
%)' '2#)*: !a#&0#, (&$#)*a&$&, 9(* a&$ 12'(
/#& !#)**+#, a+a"a/"# ' 2#"! 2 $()& 2*
)a&*'& !#)'$.
S#"%-H#"!: *(!!)#** !("*#* a* (02 a* !'**/"#, '
')%3, &#)a# a&$ *(/"a# 2#.
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SUBLIMATION
L#)a""3==.. T' )a*# ') #"#+a#
R#$)#0& #)3 %)' ' a0+3 ' a&'2#) 2a * 9($#$ ' /#
0("()a""3, *'0a""3, !23*0a""3, %(&0'&a""3, a#*2#0a""3 ') *!)(a""322#) ') /##).
A& a00#!a&0# '% %##"&* 2a 1# $' &' 1a& ' #x!)#** & 0#)a&
/#2a+') /#0a(*# '% 2# 0'&%"0 & +a"(#* 8 )#-02a&" 2# #)3 &'
a0+3 2a * 0'&)(#& 12 '() +a"(#* ?!)''# 2#a"23 a&$ ''$
"+&@ Exa!"#: a0a$#0 ') a$&*)a+# 1')4, a#*2#0 a&$ 0)#a+#
a0+3 "4# *!')*, 0'&0#)& %') '2#)*
P*#($'>N' H#a"23: O+#)#a, '+#)"3 !a#)&a" ') a#)&a" 12 !#)*'&*
*(02 a* 02"$)#& ') !a#&*, ))a/"# a&$ a&)3
P*#($'-*(/"a'& - a 1a3 '% )#"#a*# %##"&* *(02 a* %)(*)a'& a&$))a/"3 2a 0a& 0'# %)' )#!)#**#$ *#x(a"3 8 #. O+#)#a 8 0a&
"a# aa&* 2#a"23 )'12
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RESPECTFUL INTEGRATION
A $)#0 1a3 '% &#)a& #&a"3 a&$ *#x(a"3
G#&a"3 2a* a ')# $)#0 a&$ !'*+# &%"(#&0# '& '()
!*302'"'0a" a&$ *!)(a" "%#. I 0a& #+'4# a&$ !)''#a(2#&0 &#)a'&
AMPLIFICATION
C)#a+# 0'&)'", 0)#a+# "*#&& a&$ 0)#a+# *##&
H#a"23 a!"%0a'& 8 a& #x#&*'& '% 2# !'**/"#0'&*#(#&0#* '% 2# %a&a*3 a&$ "&4* 12 )#a"3.
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THANK YOU AND GOD BLESS