Bullying Debrief
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Bullying DebriefMr. Nielson
Author of ‘VCHS Life Lessons’
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VictimproofLove the person bullying youSet boundariesBe the change
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Why people bullyFilling a need in their lifeThey are bullied They hurt, so they hurt others Revenge because you hurt
them
People are inherently good – there is a reason when someone bullies.
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Bullying Story
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Fighting Evil with EvilRESULTS IN
MORE EVIL!!!
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How to respond to bullying?
Do NOT retaliate physically or with hurtful words.
Tell the person that what they are doing hurts
Ask why they are hurting you
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Love the Person Bullying You
Open dialogue about the hurtEmpathize with the personForgive the person
Forgiveness is not for the person bullying – the forgiveness is for YOU!!
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Set BoundariesDecide what is acceptable for youExplain to others what is acceptableHold your standard
If you didn’t decide what is acceptable, peer pressure will likely win…
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Be the ChangeHow do you want the world to
be?Stand up to make the world the
way it should be, stand up for yourself, stand up for others
It takes a strong man to stand up for himself; it takes a stronger man to stand up for others.
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Army Strong
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Talk to an AdultBeing bullied?You are hurt and being a bully to
others?See bullying occurring?Hurt in any way?Thinking about hurting yourself,
others, property?
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Do you have an adult?A parentA relativeA teacherA councilorA spiritual leaderA principal
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Questions/Discussion