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beGROUCHY!!!but…

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DO YOU GET GROUCHY? DO YOU SNAP AT PEOPLE?

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HEY LISTEN, IT’S OK TO ANSWER YES

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IT IS COMPLETELY FINE. EVERYONE GETS GROUCHY.

IT’S NATURAL. IT IS PROBABLY A BIOLOGICAL &

PSYCHOLOGICAL NECESSITY

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SO, GO AHEAD. BE GROUCHY IF YOU NEED TO BE.

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HOWEVER

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DON’T BE NAÏVE. KNOW THAT YOUR GROUCHINESS HAS

IMPLICATIONS

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WHEN YOU’RE GROUCHY, YOU EMANATE NEGATIVE ENERGY -

WITH WORDS, BODY LANGUAGE, PHEROMONES, FACIAL

EXPRESSIONS

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IF YOU’RE LUCKY, THIS NEGATIVE ENERGY

DISSIPATES BECAUSE

THOSE EXPOSED

HAVE MECHANISM

S TO DISPERSE IT

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OTHER TIMES, THE GROUCHINESS IS SHARED LESS DESTRUCTIVELY –

LIKE A BITCH FEST ABOUT A COMMON CO-WORKER

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HOWEVER, MOST OF THE TIME, YOUR NEGATIVE ENERGY HAS

VICTIMS - EMPLOYEES, COWORKERS, FAMILY MEMBERS, FRIENDS, STRANGERS, OR EVEN

SMALL ANIMALS.

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SOMETIMES YOUR GROUCHINESS ACTUALLY HURTS THE PEOPLE

AROUND YOU

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OTHER TIMES IT INFECTS THEM WITH THEIR OWN GROUCHINESS

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IT HAS HAPPENED TO YOU. SO YOU KNOW WHAT I’M TALKING ABOUT

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SO HERE’S MY ADVICE

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WHEN YOU ARE GROUCHY, BE GROUCHY. I’M NOT TELLING YOU

TO, “STOP BEING GROUCHY.” THAT’S NOT POSSIBLE.

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HOWEVER…

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ACCEPT THAT YOU HAVE RESPONSIBILITIES

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FIRST, YOU HAVE THE RESPONSIBILITY TO RECOGNIZE

THAT YOU ARE GROUCHY

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ONCE YOU RECOGNIZE

THAT YOU’RE IN A FOUL MOOD, YOU HAVE THE

RESPONSIBILITY TO TRY TO STAY

AWAY FROM OTHERS, OR AT

LEAST DISSIPATE THE

GROUCHY ENERGY ON SOMETHING INANIMATE

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FINALLY, WHEN YOU CAN’T PROTECT OTHERS, YOU HAVE THE

RESPONSIBILITY TO APOLOGISE ONCE YOU REGAIN COMPOSURE

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APOLOGISE WHETHER OR NOT THEY WERE HURT, BECAUSE PEOPLE MAY NOT TELL YOU & BECAUSE BEING

GROUCHY IS BAD MANNERS

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BETTER YET, IF YOU ARE GROUCHY AND YOU KNOW IT, ACKNOWLEDGE IT. “I’M JUST SO GROUCHY TODAY! SORRY IN

ADVANCE”. THAT, IN ITSELF, MAY HELP.

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SO…

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BE GROUCHY,

BUT…

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