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FEELING GOOD TOGETHER THE SECRET TO MAKING TROUBLED RELATIONSHIPS WORK BY DAVID D. BURNS, M.D.

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FEELING GOOD TOGETHER

THE SECRET TO MAKING TROUBLED RELATIONSHIPS WORK

BY DAVID D. BURNS, M.D.

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The Ten Distortions that Trigger Conflict

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The Ten Distortions that Trigger Conflict (continued)

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Relationship Satisfaction Test (RSAT)

Copyright © 1989 by David D. Burns, M.D. Revised 2005. Therapists who wish to obtain

a license to use the RSAT in their clinical work or research can visit my website at

www.feelinggood.com for more information about the Therapist’s Toolkit.

Scoring Key for the RSAT

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Relationship Journal

Copyright © 1991 by David D. Burns, M.D. Revised 2007.

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The Intimacy Inventory

Copyright © 2008 by David D. Burns, M.D.

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Self-Blame vs. Other-Blame vs. Personal Responsibility

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The EAR Checklist

Copyright © 2008 by David D. Burns, M.D.

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Common Communication Errors

Copyright © 2008 by David D. Burns, M.D.

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The Five Secrets of Effective Communication

Copyright © 1991 by David D. Burns, M.D. Revised 1992.

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Disarming Technique Exercise

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Disarming Technique Exercise Answers

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Feeling Words

Copyright © 1989 by David D. Burns, M.D. Revised 1992, 2006.