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GHS 73: Jesus Only Is Our Message

1. Jesus only is our Message,

Jesus all our theme shall be;

We will lift up Jesus ever

Jesus Only will we see.

Jesus only, Jesus ever,

Jesus all in all we sing;

Saviour, Sanctifier, Healer,

Baptizer and coming King.

2. Jesus only is our Saviour,

All our guilt He bore away;

All our righteousness He gives us,

All our strength from day to day.

3. Jesus is our Sanctifier,

Cleansing us from self and sin;

And with all His Spirit’s fulness,

Filling all our hearts within.

GHS 253: My Portion For Ever

1. All, all to Jesus,

I consecrate anew,

He is my portion forever;

Only His glory,

Henceforth will I pursue,

He is my portion forever.

Take, take the world with all its gilded toys,

Take, take the world I covet not its joys.

Mine is a wealth no moth nor rust destroys;

Jesus my portion forever.

2. All, all to Jesus,

My trusting heart can say,

He is my portion forever;

Led by His mercy

I'm walking ev'ry day,

He is my portion forever.

4. Jesus only is our Healer, All our sicknesses He bare; And His risen life and fulness, All His members still may share.

5. Jesus only is our Power, His the gift of Pentecost; Jesus, breathe Thy power upon us, Fill us with the Holy Ghost.

6. And for Jesus we are waiting, Listening for the trumpet’s sound; Then it will be us and Jesus, Living ever with our God.

3. Though He may try me

This blessed truth I know,

He is my portion forever;

He will not leave me,

His promise tells me so,

He is my portion forever.

4 All, all to Jesus,

I cheerfully resign,

He is my portion forever;

I have the witness that He,

My Lord, is mine,

He is my portion forever.

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GHS 23: No Other Plea

1. My faith has found a resting place,

Not in device nor creed;

I trust the Ever-living One,

His wounds for me shall plead.

I need no other argument,

I need no other plea;

It is enough that Jesus died,

And that He died for me.

2. Enough for me that Jesus saves,

This ends my fear and doubt;

GHS 21: Will Your Anchor Hold?

1. Will your anchor hold in the storms of life,

When the clouds unfold their wings of strife?

When the strong tides lift, and the cables strain,

Will your anchor drift or firm remain?

We have an anchor that keeps the soul

Steadfast and sure while the billows roll,

Fastened to the Rock which cannot move,

Grounded firm and deep in the Saviour’s love.

2. It is safely moored, ’twill the storm withstand,

For ’tis well secured by the Saviour’s hand;

And the cables passed from His heart to mine,

Can defy the blast, through strength divine.

A sinful soul I come to Him,

He’ll never cast me out.

3. My heart is leaning on the Word,

The written Word of God,

Salvation by my Saviour’s name,

Salvation through His blood.

4. My great Physician heals the sick,

The lost He came to save;

For me His precious blood He shed,

For me His life He gave.

3. It will firmly hold in the straits of fear,

When the breakers have told the reef is near;

Though the tempest rave and the wild winds blow,

Not an angry wave shall our bark o’erflow.

4. It will surely hold in the floods of death,

When the waters cold chill our latest breath;

On the rising tide it can never fail,

While our hopes abide within the veil.

5. When our eyes behold, through the gathering

night

The city of gold, our harbour bright,

We shall anchor fast by the heavenly shore,

With the storms all past for evermore.

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GHS 258: Oh, To Be Like Thee

1.O to be like Thee! blessed Redeemer;

This is my constant longing and prayer;

Gladly I’ll forfeit all of earth’s treasures,

Jesus, Thy perfect likeness to wear.

O to be like Thee! O to be like Thee!

Blessed Redeemer, pure as Thou art;

Come in Thy sweetness, come in Thy fullness;

Stamp Thine own image deep on my heart.

2. O to be like Thee! full of compassion,

Loving, forgiving, tender and kind,

Helping the helpless, cheering the fainting,

Seeking the wand’ring sinner to find.

GHS 179: Higher Ground

1. I’m pressing on the upward way,

New heights I’m gaining every day;

Still praying as I onward bound,

“Lord, plant my feet on higher ground.”

Lord, lift me up, and let me stand

By faith on Heaven’s tableland;

Where love, and joy, and light abound,

Lord, plant my feet on higher ground.

2. My heart has no desire to stay

Where doubts arise and fears dismay;

Though some may dwell where these abound,

My constant aim is higher ground.

3. O to be like Thee! lowly in spirit,

Holy and harmless, patient and brave;

Meekly enduring cruel reproaches,

Willing to suffer, others to save

4. O to be like Thee! Lord, I am coming,

Now to receive th’ anointing divine;

All that I am and have I am bringing;

Lord, from this moment all shall be Thine.

5. O to be like Thee! While I am pleading

Pour out Thy Spirit, fill with Thy love.

Make me a temple meet for Thy dwelling,

Fit me for life and Heaven above.

3. Beyond the mist I fain would rise,

To rest beneath unclouded skies,

Above Earth’s turmoil peace is found,

By those who dwell in higher ground.

4. I long to scale the utmost height,

Tho’ rough the way, and hard the fight,

My song, while climbing, shall resound,

Lord, lead me on to higher ground.

5. Lord lead me up the mountain side,

I dare not climb without my Guide;

And Heaven gained, I’ll gaze around

With grateful heart from higher ground.

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GHS 216: More About Jesus Would I Know

1. More about Jesus would I know,

More of His grace to others show;

More of His saving fulness see,

More of His love who died for me.

More, more about Jesus,

More, more about Jesus;

More of His saving fulness see,

More of His love who died for me.

2. More about Jesus let me learn,

More of His holy will discern;

GHS 35: A New Name In Glory

1. I was once a sinner, but I came

Pardon to receive from my Lord.

This was freely given, and I found

That He always kept His word.

There's a new name Written down in glory,

And it's mine, (And it's mine,)

oh yes, it's mine! (yes, it's mine!)

And the white-robed Angels sing the story,

"A sinner has come home." (home, has come home.")

For there's a new name written down in glory,

And it's mine, (And it's mine,)

GHS 26: I Know Whom I Have Believed

Oh yes, it's mine! (yes, it's mine!)

With my sins forgiven I am bound for heaven,

Nevermore to roam.

2. I was humbly kneeling at the cross,

Fearing naught but God's angry frown,

When the heavens opened and I saw

That my name was written down.

3. In the Book 'tis written, "Saved by grace."

O the joy that came to my soul!

Now I am forgiven, and I know

By the blood I am made whole.

Spirit of God my teacher be,

Showing the things of Christ to me.

3. More about Jesus; in His Word,

Holding communion with my Lord;

Hearing His voice in every line,

Making each faithful saying mine.

4. More about Jesus; on His throne,

Riches in glory all His own;

More of His kingdom’s sure increase;

More of His coming, Prince of Peace.

3. I know not how the Spirit moves,

Convincing men of sin,

Revealing Jesus through the Word,

Creating faith in him

4. I know not what of good or ill

May be reserved for me,

Of weary ways or golden days,

Before his face I see.

5. I know not when my Lord may come,

At night or noonday fair,

Nor if I'll walk the vale with him,

Or meet him in the air.

1. I know not why God's wondrous grace

To me he has made known,

Nor why, unworthy, Christ in love

Redeemed me for his own.

But "I know whom I have believed,

And am persuaded that he is able

Go keep that which I've committed

Unto him against that day."

2. I know not how this saving faith

To me he did impart,

Nor how believing in his Word

Wrought peace within my heart.

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THE CHRISTIAN FAMILY: WIFEcolossians 3:18

;El# home is the cornerstone of the church and world security and stability! peace and prosperity. It isftid€radle of tho world's entire future and the right knowledge of its FOUNDER and format for successi5@rdvo for personal and social unity. Made up of husbands, wives, children andjervants. tt is the$!8{+ of the higtlost spiritual and modal and physical interaction. A true christian homo should rof oct}tbaven on each because Christian Marriage is compared to the relationship between christ and the.©ttuM. Manage is heavenly for God is the authour of it. The two virtues domanded in marriage aro:;role and ABED/ENCE Happy is the family that takos God at His word and enjoys the nberty ot aaas!©ieseltw. poach, purity, power and prosperity.

fiESPONSIBILITIES OF A WIFE

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She must know her area of responsibility. Sho is not equal in responsibility i.e.complement homemaker. orderliness, though equal with the husband (Genesis 2:18; Titus 2:3-5).Must accept her rosponsibilitywith tho right attitude. She is not inferior to the husband and so mustnot bo competitive. $he is equal in importance but not position. (Romans 14:23).$he must have a submissive spirit to her own husband. (Colossians 3:1 8).She must reverence hor husband (Ephesians 5:33).Obey hor husband. (Ephesians 5:24).Honour tho husband. (I Peter 3:6).Haveameekand quietspirit.(I Peter3:1-5). . .... '- - . -Recognise that her husband and herself are heirs together ol tho grace OI UTO. (I rotor a:/J.Modest and godly). (I nmothy 2:9-1 0).Given to hospitality. (Hebrew 1 3:1 ).

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Thou shalt not nag - (Proverbs 27:15)Thou shalt spend thofamilies monoywith care and wisdom - (Proverbs 31 :1 6)Thou shalt keep thy tongue with all diligence; do not gossip - (I Peter 4:1 5)Thou shalt not compare thy husband with othor men or remind him of any of the men you couldhave married - (Proverbs 1 4:1 )Thou shalt not be the boss - (Genesis 2:1 8)Thou shalt not possess an excessively jealous spirit - (Proverbs 1 2:4)Thou shalt cuddle thy husband, doing for him those little things that mean so much to him - (Proverbs

Thou shalt diligently koep thyself and thy homo attractive remombering that thou must not only winthy husband's love but also keep it (fetus 2:3)Thou shalt prize thy womanly virtues and value thom more than life (Proverbs 31 :1 0).Thou shalt have a genuine christian character with a deep faith in God. Proverbs 31 :30).

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CHARACTERISTICS OF A VIRTUOUS WIFE1. She is a commendable wife and mother. (PROVERBS 31 :11 ,28).2. she lives for home and family.3. She is constantly industrious.4. She is self disciplined and orderly5. She is a sharp business woman. (2 Kings 4:8).6. She has good refined tastes.(2 Kings 4:8).7. She manifests the grace of hospitality. (2 Kings 4:9-11).8. Sho is charitable in time of need. (I Timothy 5:10). 9. She is virtuous because she is spiritually

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THE CHRISTIAN HOME: PARENTS AND THE CHILDRENColossians 3:21

ltB:tlo#ilo is the basis of each society and its unity and progress form the integration and strength of thet}8B©t. God through tho Bible teaches us the responsibilities of the entire family: husbands, wives andc#g©eb., Parents are the vessels through whom God desires to promote His etemal purpose.in each

{amiV {G$nesis 1 :26-28). A good knowledge of God's value of His gifts (of children). to the family wouldbtiabieparents to appreciato and perfectly respond to their responsibilities. Each f ather, as the leader off! tlome. is thus instructed to ensure peace, purity, pleasure and progress in each household. The}tQdvenliness of each home largely depends on him (Deuteronomy 1 1 :21 ).

GOD'S PURPOSE FOR CHILDREN

:l:tn words "child" and "chi/dred"are mentioned about 2,000 times in scripture. Astttey complete the family. Every person born into the world come in as a childs

:: :;: Children are the heritage of the LORD (Psalm 1 27:3).2.:; Children are as the arrows of the mighty (Psalm 127:4).3.: Children are the olive plants (Psalm 1 28:3).4.: Children are wonderfully made (Psalm 1 39:1 3-1 6), wanted and loved.s. : Children are not to be provoked (Colossians 3:21)6. Jewish children were presented to the LORD in the temple at infancy and at

(Luke 2:21 ,41 -52).7. Children are to be taught the word of God (Deuteronomy 4:1 0,11 -21 ).8. Children are to be trained (Proverbs 22:6).9. Children are to be corrected (Proverbs 23:1 3; 22:1 5).10. Children are to be provided for (I nmothy 5:8).I.f. Children are to be protected (Ephesians 6:4).12. Children are to be guided(Genesis 18:19).1 3. Children are known by their actions (Proverbs 20:11 ).14. Children must not be left to themselves (Proverbs 29:1 5).15. Children's foolishness has to be dealt with (Proverbs 22:1 5).16. Children are to be brought to Jesus (Matthew 1 9:1 3,1 4).17. Children are to obey their parents (Colossians 3:20).18. Children are to honour their parents (Ephesians 6:2,3)

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GODLY PRACTICE FOR fURENTSColossians 3:21 ; Ephesians 6:4; Proverbs 22:6; Deuteronomy 6:6-9

In order not to provoke them to anger, parents must train their children. A realisation of tho nature ofchildren constrains us to take our responsibilities seriously.t. Children are born with a nature inclined to sin. it is very important for parents to train them to

discern between right and wrong and thus prepare them forthe new birth experience (Psalm 51 :5;Job 14:4; 15:14).

2. Children are born without knowledge. The principles and concepts imparted to them from theirtender age will make up their understanding and frame of reference (Psalm 1 9:2).

3. Children are imitators - the lifestyle and habits of parents will be transmitted to their children (Ezekiel

4. Children are vulnerable(Matthew 10:16). They need to be trained to bewaro of the dangers of lifo.5. Children have great potentials (Genesis 1 :28).6. Children are the carriers of culture (Psalm 78:4-8; 145:4).

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THE CHRISTIAN FAMILY: HUSBANDColossians 3:19

!)faded as he crown of God's creation, a husband is not a boss over his wife. Sufficient only with God##$1iaqr, each husband is only sufficient on earth with his own wife. As God gives the world and Christbees #w church so is the husband commanded to love his own wife irrespective of what he sees or:palceivieg! it is a constant unending love shown by words and deed resulting in his own fame, f avour+!#i#iess and fullness. Keeping close to God each man must not marry with the eyes (for beauty) or

{+#} e$e hands (money or marketability) but wait until God chooses for him since marriage is until deathlo :i$! cf the partnersl}kiibilld means "band of fhe house" I thus strictly implying that he is the support or band that keepsgB:l)wse together. For when love fails there is no more togetherness or bond - everything fails and falls

iep#n} Husbands loves your wife as Christ loves the church.

RESPONSIBILITIES OF HUSBAND

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Acknowledgement and confession that Jesus Christ is LORD over his lifeRecognise that the wife is a help meet. Not merely a help mate. (Genesis 2:1 8).Recognise that the wife was taken from his side - the place nearest to his heart - to be loved byhim. Not taken from the feet to be trodden under foot, or from the head to be knocked (Genesisf3 .11r\ r) rl \

Recognise that the wife is of like nature and substance. (Genesis 2:23).He is to leave and then to cleave (Genesis 2:24-25).To accept the fact that God gavo him headship because he himself is under God's headship (ICorinthians ll :3). HEADSHIP DOES NOT MEAN: (a) Dictatorship (b) Superiority to the woman{c) Inferiority to the woman (d) Exclusive decision maker (e) He is always right.Recognise that they are one for:(a) Adam said it -(Genesis 2:23)(b) Jesus said it - (Matthew 19:4-6) (c) Paul said it - (Ephesians 5:30-31 ).lo love the wife as Christ loved the church - (Ephesians 5:2,25-31 ; I Corinthians 1 3:4-7)Give yourself as Christ gave Himself for the Church - (Ephesians 5:25)Nourish her - (Ephesians 5:29) Greek - to promote health and strengthCherish her - (Ephesians 5:29) to impart warmth, foster and care forBe faithful to the marriage covenant - (Malachi 2:1 4)Honour the wife - (I Peter 3:7-8)Recognise the wife as a weaker vessel - (I Peter 3:8)That both of you are heirs together of the grace of life - (I Peter 3:8)That nothing hinders your prayers - (I Peter 3:8)Provide for your house - (I Tmothy 5:8)Rejoice with her - (Proverbs 5:1 8; Ecclesiastics 9:9)Please her - (I corinthians 7:32-33)The woman is the image and glory of the man - (I corinthians ll :7)The man is of the woman - (I corinthians ll :8)The woman was created for the man - (I Corinthians ll :9)The man and the woman are both incomplete without each other in tho LORD - (I Corinthians

The husband has greater responsibility (Luke 1 2:48).If the husband. like GOD and Christ, loves his wife, it would be natural for the wife to fulfil herobligations(Colossians 3:1 9)

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TEN COMMANDMENTS FOR HUSBANDS1 . Thou shall give God a place - yea first place in thy heart and home. (Job 23:12).2. Romember that thou shalt assume responsibility fortho home (I Corinthians ll :3).3. Thou shalt provide the necessities of life for thy family and shall not close thy fist tightly around thy

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