A2Z in Relationship

A2Z in RelationshipHemant Lodha

A to Z in RELATIONSHIP


Positive Attitude

Positive thinking is pre-requisite of positive attitude

and positive attitude is pre-

requisite of strong relationship.

THOUGHTSTHOUGHTS

WORDSWORDS

ACTIONSACTIONS

HABITSHABITS

CHARACTERCHARACTER

DESTINYDESTINY


Do not Blame

In relationship blame is like throwing stone on glass. It will break and never

be in one piece again.


Avoid 4 C’s

CriticismComparisonCompetitionComplaining

Adopt 4 C’s

CaringCommitment

ClarityCharacter


Discuss do not argue

Discuss do not argue. Arguments are pre-stage of fighting and fighting is end of relationship.


Emotional Intelligence

It is EQ and not IQ requires in relationship.


Forgive – Let Go

Forgiveness is most powerful tool to make relationship more stronger and everlasting.


Give

There is no give n take in relationship. It is only giving makes relationship forever.


Happiness

Happiness is only choice over every thing else.


Interdepende

nce

We are dependent on each other

Dependence - YouIndependence - I

Interdependence - We


Stop Justifying mistakes

By justifying your mistakes you will win your argument and will lose your relationship.


Keep Commitment

Either do not commit if commit keep commitment at any cost.


Unconditional Love

Unconditional Love is like a fevicol in relationship. Either you can love or

can have conditions.


Maturity

For mature relationship you must have courage to express your views at the same

time consideration for how other feels.


Learn to say No

Relationship is not yesmanship. It is better to say No rather Yes and do not honour.


Be Optimistic

Optimists radiate positive energy. Pessimists are without any energy.


Praise

Praise can raise anyone’s altitude and can change any one’s attitude.


Quality

Strive for quality rather than quantity in Relationship.


Respect

Only way to get respect is, to give respect.


Smile

Smile can create miles of good image.


Trust

Honesty is the foundation of Trust and Trust is the foundation of Relationship.


Understanding

Listen even which is not yet uttered is understanding.

Empathy is the most comfortable bed you

can give to emotionally upset person and make

relationship everlasting.

LISTENING

IgnoringPretendingSelective Listening

Attentive Listening

Empathic Listening


Visit regularly

Regular Visits and meetings are binding agent of relationship.


Win – Win

Think win-win is one of the most important habit in

maintaining relationship.

Win - WinWin - LoseLose - WinLose - LoseWinWin - Win or No deal


Give Xtra

Exceed the expectations and you become extraordinary.


Never Yell

Yelling is sign for intension of dominance and dominance is starting point towards end of

relationship.


Zeal

Without enthusiasm relationship is dead like vehicle without fuel.


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