2016 - You Don't Belong Here: Dealing with Impostor Syndrome

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You Don’t Belong Here! DEALING WITH IMPOSTOR SYNDROME

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You Don’t Belong Here!

DEALING WITH IMPOSTOR SYNDROME

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Who the heck am I?!

Jody Wolfborn Self-professed Imposterizer IT/DevOps practitioner for around 7 years Dog-person with a short attention span I love punctuation!

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Rules of EngagementThis stuff works for meFind what you connect with and build

your practice around thatTake what you want or need and

respectfully leave the rest

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What the heck is Impostor Syndrome?!

And how the heck do I spell it?!An intense, overwhelming anxiety that

one’s achievements are undeserved, and that they’ll be discovered as an impostor!I feel desperately out of place…

I have no idea what I’m supposed to understand…Everyone knows something that I don’t…

If they find out what I don’t know…I’m just waiting for the other shoe to drop…

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Famous “Impostors”

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…believe they’re imposters

don’t…

Why the heck do you care?!

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DEFINITION!“Impostor” v. “Adept”

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"The trouble with the worldis that the stupid are cocksureand the intelligent are full of

doubt."— Bertrand Russell

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DEFINITION! “Fixed Mindset”

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DEFINITION! “Growth Mindset”

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Frie

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Relatives

Coworkers

MentorClose friends

Partner/Sig Other

Trusted Advisors

DEFINITION! “Inner Circle”

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Choose Your Support Group Carefully!

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How the heck do I deal with it?!

You’re not an impostor if you remain ADEPT Be Aware Be Deliberate Be Empathetic Be Powerful Be Tenacious

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Be AWARE!Know what triggers your Impostor

Syndrome!Know what you’re saying!Know that you’re not alone!Know when to admit you don’t know!

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Be DELIBERATE!Choose to change your attitude!Choose to change your language!Choose to learn and grow!Choose your support group carefully!

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Be EMPATHETIC!Listen to your body!Listen to your instincts!Listen to others actively!Listen to the good things people say

about you!

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Be POWERFUL!Exhude pride!Exhude confidence!Exhude strength!Exhude compassion!

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Be TENACIOUS!Fight the urge to give up!Fight the fear concept of failure!Fight the tedium!Fight complacency!

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Remember: You’re Not ALONE!!

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Seriously, REMEMBER: You’re Not ALONE!!

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“And now that you don’t have to be perfect…

….you can be good.”