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Cheer for Cherries!

A Little Dinner Music

Valentine’s Crafts for Kids

February 2016Volume 15 • Issue 3

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PublisherAngela Efting Ellerbroek

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mind–body–spiritHEALTH & WELL-BEING

Eating Disorders: Learn the Signs, Get Help Early 54

Good Advice from the Lion Hunter’s Wife 58

TRAVEL A Wilmington, NC Getaway 60

friends & familyPARENTING & PREGNANCY

A Grateful Heart: How one mother embraces life with a heart defect 68

FOR KIDS Valentine’s Day Crafts for Kids 72

CELEBRATIONSLove Every Day 74

BEST BOOKS 76

CUTE KIDSSubmit Your Child’s Photo 78

BEST FRIENDSSubmit Your Pet’s Photo 80

HISTORICAL MARKER 1851 Indian Treaty 82

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In Her Shoes Empowerment Breakfast 32

VINO The Art of Nurturing a Relationship 34

MAN IN THE KITCHEN A Little Dinner Music 38

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No, the sign on the store is not a typo. It is really spelled S.H.U.E.S., and it stands for Stylish, Honest, Unique,

Empowering, Stunning. In other words, according to store owner Chelsea Tracy, “It’s

what every woman is.”What started as a whim has quickly become a high-traffic spot

for downtown shoppers. Chelsea and her team opened this store in five days, which included a significant remodel. It helped that she’s had plenty of retail experience already, operating Chelsea’s Boutique just four doors up the block on Phillips Avenue.

When she heard that the Lot 2029 store was going to move from their storefront near the corner of 12th & Phillips, her first thoughts went to what might go in there and hoping it would be something positive that would continue to bolster her side of the block. Then, came the idea – a shoe store.

“Downtown areas like ours are being revitalized all over the country,” says Chelsea, “and downtown Sioux Falls has really

exploded in recent years with a wonderful assortment of retail, dining, nightlife and more. But one thing that wasn’t here was a shoe store.”

The stars began to align. She and her husband (and business partner) Colin rented the building. Her clothing store, Chelsea’s Boutique, carried a line of shoes, so she already had connections to vendors. It was November, meaning they were going to get busy with holiday shoppers.

“We had five days to get open, and I’m like, ‘Can we really do this?’” she laughs. “So, then we were like, ‘Let’s do it. Let’s just do it!’”

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Having two stores close together allows for cross-promotion and the ability to expand on popular brands of clothing, shoes and accessories. She still has a small shoe section at Chelsea’s Boutique, and there are some clothing and accessory items at S.H.U.E.S. But, there are plenty of unique things at each store to draw customers into both shops.

The one thing that is definitely constant, though, is the comfortable décor, the friendly staff and personal attention to help each person find that just-right thing.

At S.H.U.E.S., the spacious location provides for plenty of room in the front half for the retail sales and storage in the back to

accommodate the extra inventory needed for their growing online presence.

“Our store inventory and online inventory are the same,” she says, “so what you see online will be in the store. We have lots of customers who will pre-shop online and come in with pictures on their phones knowing exactly what they are looking for.”

As a personal stylist herself, and with a small but mighty team dedicated to ensuring their customers look and feel their best, Chelsea says they are always ready to help those who may not be so sure of what they’re looking for, too.

“We love spending time getting to know our customers,” says

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Chelsea, “learning about what they like, and about their lifestyle. We find things that fit their personality, but sometimes we might try to nudge them out of their comfort zone, too!”

There are plenty of comfortable chairs, stools and ottomans around S.H.U.E.S. that invite you to sit down, relax, chat and, of course, try on shoes and boots. Their goal was to provide a wide array of styles, offer a personal boutique feel, but at affordable prices.

“Most of our shoes are between $30 and $70,” she says.While there is still snow on the ground and S.H.U.E.S. is

working hard to keep up with the demand of all styles of boots and booties, Chelsea is looking forward to her first visit to Las Vegas for market.

“It’s going to be fun thinking about spring!”It’s not all boots and gloves at S.H.U.E.S. right now, though.

“We love spending time getting to know our customers,” says Chelsea, “learning about

what they like, and about their lifestyle. We find things that fit their personality,

but sometimes we might try to nudge them out of their comfort zone, too!”

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A colorful table in the front window features an assortment of heels…from feisty red to animal print.

Customer feedback is important to S.H.U.E.S. and to its sister store, Chelsea’s Boutique. Both outlets use social media to solicit customer feedback with posts about new arrivals or questions and pictures asking, “Should we get this or that?”

“It makes our customers feel like they are really part of the store.”

Two stores, active social media, blogging, supporting local causes, dreaming about future expansion, and a just-over-year-old-marriage. How does Chelsea do it?

“I don’t stay still very long,” she laughs. “But I love every minute of it. There’s nothing like the feeling you get when you help another person feel empowered and seeing in themselves all that is unique and special.”

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February 2016Tibetan Singing BowlsMonday, February 1 • 5pm - 6pmSertoma Butterfly House & Marine Cove4320 S. Oxbow Ave. Tibetan singing bowls are a form of harmonic sound therapy. The sound vibrations from the bowls work with the energy in the brain and body, reducing stress, tension, and anxiety. Tibetan Singing Bowl Meditation is offered the first Monday of the month. INFO (605) 334-9466.

Fun Fit FridayFriday, February 5 • 10am - 12pmMorningside Community Center2400 South Bahnson Avenue

Ride, run, jump, and jam! Join SFPR and participate in fitness-related activities, all while having fun! Children must be supervised by an individual 16 years of age or older. A 5 to 1 ratio of children to adults must be observed. Free. No registration required. For ages 6 and under. INFO (605) 367-8222.

Red Shoe ExtravaganzaFriday, February 5 • 6:30pmICON Event Hall & LoungeRed Shoe Extravaganza...The Sioux Falls CASA Program is celebrating over 20 years of helping abused and neglected children have a safe permanent home because...”There’s No

Place Like Home” This will be a party you do not want to miss! Hors d’oeuvres, desserts, cash bar, activities with great prizes, raffle, wine pull, 50/50 raffle, DJ, dancing, and fun! Attire: Anything goes...business casual to gala style - and of course - red shoes are encouraged! INFO (605) 339-9492.

Movie Night at the Museum: AladdinFriday, February 5 • 6:30 p.m.Old Courthouse Museum • 200 West Sixth StreetSiouxland Heritage Museums and Downtown Sioux Falls are once again teaming up to bring

you Movie Night at the Museum. Bring a blanket or pillow and settle in the historic courtroom. Doors open at 6 p.m. Refreshments will be served. Admission is free. (605) 367-4210 or www.siouxlandmuseums.com

The Sweet Kiss of…Murder Murder Mystery at the Pettigrew Home & MuseumFriday, February 5 • 6, 6:30, 7, 7:30, and 8pmPettigrew Home & Museum • 131 N. Duluth AvenuePlease join us at the Pettigrew Home & Museum for an entertaining, interactive murder mystery where you solve the crime.

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Stampede Hockey Game vs. Lincoln Stars Friday, February 5 • 7:05pmDenny Sanford Premier CenterCome out and see the Sioux Falls Stampede hockey team take the ice! The Stampede are a member of the United States Hockey League, the only Tier 1 Junior hockey league in the United States and are the defending Clark Cup champions! INFO (605) 336-6060.

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The Sweet Kiss of…Murder Murder Mystery at the Pettigrew Home & MuseumSaturday, February 6 • 6, 6:30, 7, 7:30, and 8 p.m.Pettigrew Home & Museum • 131 N. Duluth AvenuePlease join us at the Pettigrew Home & Museum for an entertaining, interactive murder mystery where you solve the crime.

There will be four nights of public performances, with five show times each. Tickets will be $10 per person can be purchased at the Old Courthouse Museum.

Valentine’s for Veterans ConcertFebruary 6 • 3pmWashington Pavilion Valentines for Veterans Concert starring Aaron Tippin. Veterans may receive two complimentary tickets. Call 605-333-6806 or 605-333-6851.

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Sixth Annual HeARTS in Healing fundraising event with food and beverages along with live and silent auctions. Funds raised through HeARTS in Healing will support the Arts in Healing Program, provide services such as help with medications, transportation, family education materials, daily essentials and lodging for patients’ families along with the costs for Patient/Family Navigation Program. INFO (605) 322-4042.

Sioux Empire On TapSaturday, February 6 • 1pm - 8pmSioux Falls Arena We’re bringing Sioux Falls’s largest Craft Beer Festival to the Sioux Falls Arena! The 2nd Annual Sioux Empire on Tap. Session 1 from 1pm-4pm and Session 2 from 5pm-8pm. Sample over 100 releases from some of America’s best craft breweries. Plus hang out in an atmosphere filled with live music, delicious food available for purchase, and great vendors.

Stampede Hockey GameSaturday, February 6 • 7:05pmDenny Sanford Premier CenterCome out and see the Sioux Falls Stampede hockey team take the ice! The Stampede are a member of the United States Hockey League, the only Tier 1 Junior hockey league in the United States and are the defending Clark Cup champions! INFO (605) 336-6060.

Winter Tea Party for ChildrenSunday, February 7 · 2pm-4pmInstructional Planning CenterJoin Aleta Lindell of Miss Jaspers’ House in a winter wonderland to learn and practice age-appropriate manners while playing games, making a craft, and enjoying delicious treats. Ages 4 - 12. $20 registration fee. INFO (605) 367-7606 or www.sf.k12.sd.us/our-district/community-education

Yoga w/ the ButterfliesSunday, February 7 • 10amSertoma Butterfly House & Marine CoveBring your yoga mat for a one-hour session with Sean Gallup in the warm, lush Butterfly House. It’s a peaceful, serene experience like nothing else! Improve flexibility, strengthen muscles, get your blood flowing, and let your worries go. ($10 per session, or $5 for members and volunteers.) INFO (605) 334-9466.

L.A. Theatre Works: DraculaTuesday, February 9 • 7:30pmWashington Pavilion • 301 S. Main AvenueWant to see radio theatre in action? Come hear the original vampire and his tale of unholy terror! Forget Twilight and True Blood; Bram Stoker’s DRACULA comes to life in this stage adapted version of Count Dracula’s quest for blood in Victorian London. INFO (605) 367-6000.

Volunteer Sioux Falls - National 211 DayThursday, February 11Helpline Center • 1000 N. West Ave.National 211 Day Service projects at the Non-Profit Center. The Helpline Center will lead these community-wide events, encouraging individuals, families, churches, civic groups and companies to give involved in a volunteer project each February, September and December. For more information dial 211.

Behind the Scenes Tour of the Pettigrew Home & MuseumFriday, February 12 • 12:30 p.m.Pettigrew Home & Museum • 131 North Duluth AvenueTake a look behind the closed doors of the Pettigrew Home & Museum and see the artifact storage and work areas. Free admission. Call

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Sweet Art ShowFebruary 12 • 5:30pm - 8:30pmIcon Event Hall + Lounge • 402 N. Main Ave.Join us for the 2nd Annual Sweet Art Show – an art reception showcasing Sioux Falls artists as well as a fundraiser that will help further JAM Art & Supplies’ mission of getting art supplies in the hands of local artists. Funds will help secure operations and will increase creative reuse summer camps, classes, and workshops for Sioux Falls artists and children for 2016. Featured at the event will be a gourmet ice cream bar with delectable ice cream toppings and sweet hors d’oeuvres. A cash bar will also be available. A free-will donation of $10 is suggested at the door. INFO [email protected]

Big Band Ballroom DanceFriday, February 12 • 6:45pmEl Riad Shrine • 501 S. Phillips Ave.Attend the only Big Band Ballroom Dance in the area! Each month, a big band gets the crowd moving and shaking with music from the ‘40s, ‘50s and ‘60s. All ages and abilities are welcome. INFO 605-338-3685.

Neil Simon’s Lost in YonkersFriday, February 12 • 7pmSaturday, February 13 • 7pmSunday, February 14 • 2pmFriday, February 19 • 7pmSaturday, February 20 • 7pmSunday, February 21 • 2pmSioux Empire Community Theatre • 315 N. Phillips Ave.Bella is a mentally challenged woman living at home with her mother, Grandma Kurnitz. Eddie, Bella’s brother, deposits his two young sons in his mother’s home. The summer is eventful with

Bella’s secret romance, her brother Louie’s hoodlum actions and a strange new world for the young boys called Yonkers! INFO (605) 360-4800.

Stampede Hockey GameFriday, February 12 • 7:05pmDenny Sanford Premier CenterCome out and see the Sioux Falls Stampede hockey team take the ice! The Stampede are a member of the United States Hockey League, the only Tier 1 Junior hockey league in the United States and are the defending Clark Cup champions! INFO (605) 336-6060.

Twilight Flights for Valentine’s DayFriday, February 12 • 5pm - 9pmSaturday, February 13 • 5pm - 9pmStrawbale Winery47215 257th St., Renner, SDEnjoy a romantic evening and helicopter flight to see the lights of Sioux Falls. Cost is $230.00 for 2, and $265.00 for 3. Includes, wines and heavy appetizers, flight, and desert and wines. Must call for reservations with a credit card to hold it. INFO (605) 543-5071.

Stampede Hockey GameSaturday, February 13 • 7:05pmDenny Sanford Premier CenterCome out and see the Sioux Falls Stampede hockey team take the ice! The Stampede are a member of the United States Hockey League, the only Tier 1 Junior hockey league in the United States and are the defending Clark Cup champions! INFO (605) 336-6060.

Starlab Inflatable Planetarium at the Old Courthouse MuseumMonday, February 15 •1pm, 2pm, 3pmOld Courthouse Museum • 200 West Sixth StreetDiscover the night sky, explore the constellations! Starlab is a program

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for adults and children over the age of 5. Not recommended for those not comfortable in the dark. Tickets only $2, program begins promptly on the hour with no late entry. Groups of 8 or more, please call ahead. INFO (605) 367-4210 or www.siouxlandmuseums.com

Rosemaling Demonstration at the Old Courthouse MuseumTuesday, February 16 • 1pm - 4pmOld Courthouse Museum • 200 West Sixth StreetEileen Halverson will be demonstrating the Norwegian folk art of Rosemaling (decorative painting) in the second floor hallway of the Old Courthouse Museum from 1-4 p.m. Stop in any time for a demonstration or to ask questions. INFO (605) 367-4210 or www.siouxlandmuseums.com

Kid’s Activity Day Fill’er Up at the Old Courthouse Museum

Thursday, February 18 • 9-11:30 a.m. and 1-2:30 p.m.Old Courthouse Museum • 200 West Sixth StreetLearn about history and make your own crafts to take home. 15 minute sessions run throughout morning and afternoon times. Call to reserve times. Free admission. INFO (605) 367-4210 or www.siouxlandmuseums.com

Form + FashionFriday, February 19 • 6pmInstitute of Design & Technology SD presents a collaboration of student fashion and interior creations at their annual Form + Fashion event. Silent auction at 6pm and the runway show at 7:30pm at the Hilton Garden Inn. Featuring a colorful runway debut of Jonathan Adler fabrics. Special guest designer from Project Runway. INFO (605) 275-9728.

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Empowerment BreakfastFriday, February 19 • 7:30amSioux Falls Convention Center1201 Northwest AvenueThe In Her Shoes Empowerment Breakfast is a morning of fellowship, inspiration and most importantly, empowerment! What does empowerment truly mean? Hear from local women about what EMPOWERMENT has meant in their life. Bring a friend, co-worker or the influential woman in your life and prepare to be empowered. Proceeds will help support the mission of Dress For Success and EmBe: Empowering women to reach their full potential. Tickets available at Embe.org - $30 for individuals and $225 for a table of 8. INFO (605) 610-0665.

Date Night Dance Company Open DanceFriday, February 19 • 8:30pmBalleraena Dance Studio • 6901

S. Louise Ave.Join us for our Open Dance! This is an evening for couples wishing to learn a little about ballroom, Latin, country and swing dances or to enjoy dancing what you already know. A beginning lesson in the evening’s featured dance is held at 8:30 followed by a variety of dance music. The basic step for each dance is taught throughout the night. No pre-registration or experience is required! Please bring a pair of clean, dry shoes to change into to dance. INFO (605) 338-3685.

2016 Women’s Lenten RetreatFebruary 20 • 9:30am - 12:30pmSt. Michael’s Catholic Church The Presentation Sisters invite you to begin your Lenten journey with them during the 2016 Women’s Lenten Retreat. Sister Elaine Garry, Aberdeen Presentation Sister, will be the featured

speaker for this retreat entitled “Lingering in Lent”. This women’s retreat will focus on joining with the Holy Spirit to linger in the lessons that the scriptures are teaching us. There will be time for personal reflection, prayer and sharing along with the presented information. INFO 605-339-1254 or 605-229-8391 or [email protected].

Stampede Hockey GameSaturday, February 20 • 7:05pmDenny Sanford Premier CenterCome out and see the Sioux Falls Stampede hockey team take the ice! The Stampede are a member of the United States Hockey League, the only Tier 1 Junior hockey league in the United States and are the defending Clark Cup champions! INFO (605) 336-6060.

Victorian Tea Party at the Pettigrew Home & Museum

Sunday, February 21 • 1:30 p.m.Pettigrew Home & Museum • 131 N. Duluth AvenueEnjoy a tea in true Victorian fashion at the historic Pettigrew Home & Museum. Learn about the history of tea while enjoying a delicious tea blend. Space is limited for this adult program. Call (605) 367-7097 to register. Free admission. INFO www.siouxlandmuseums.com

PostSecret: The ShowMonday, February 22 • 7:30pmTuesday, February 23 • 7:30pmWashington Pavilion • 301 S. Main Avenue POSTSECRET: THE SHOW is an immersive, poignant journey through the humor and humanity of the personal stories we keep to ourselves, and on rare occasions, share with others. Projected images, videos, three actors and a guitarist guide the audience through crowd-sourced narratives

FEBRUARY 27 | 2 & 7:30 P.M. & FEBRUARY 28 | 2 P.M.ONCE tells the enchanting tale of a Dublin street musician who’s about to give up on his dream when a beautiful young woman takes a sudden interest in his haunting love songs. As the chemistry between them grows, his music soars to powerful new heights ... but their unlikely connection turns out to be deeper and more complex than your everyday romance.

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SME Excellence AwardsTuesday, February 23 • 6pmSioux Falls Convention CenterHonoring Tom Walsh, Sr. as the South Dakota Sales and Marketing Executive of the Year, the SME Excellence Awards are a yearly event sponsored by SME Sioux Falls. Members of the community gather to celebrate the evening with the selected honoree and Tickets are available for $50. Tables of 10 may be reserved for $500. Call 605-336-5626 to order them. (605) 336-5626.

Sanford PROMISE Community Lecture SeriesThursday, February 25 • 5:30pmSanford Center2301 E. 60th St. NorthPresenters: Chris Rogers, PhD/Director of Research and Development at Exemplar Genetics & Jill Weimer, PhD/Director and Scientist with Sanford Children’s Health Research Center Talk: “How pigs can help us understand and treat rare human disease(s)”. Free admission. INFO (605) 312-6590.

Ceili Dance ProgramThursday, February 25 • 6:30 p.m.Old Courthouse Museum • 200 West Sixth StreetLearn the Irish social dance Ceili (pronounced KAY-lee) with the Sioux Falls Ceili Band. Whether you are a beginner or an experienced dancer, Ceili dancing is a fun and energetic way to spend an evening. Get ready to dance at the Old Courthouse Museum! Free admission. INFO (605) 367-4210 or www.siouxlandmuseums.com

REACH Literacy presents Brewhaha Journey to the Center of the EarthFebruary 26 • 7pm - 10pm

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OnceSaturday, February 27 • 7:30pmWashington Pavilion • 301 S. Main AvenueAn eight-time Tony Award® Winner, ONCE gives the audience a one-of-a-kind theatre experience. ONCE is a truly original Broadway experience. Featuring an impressive ensemble of actor/musicians who play their own instruments onstage, ONCE tells the enchanting tale of a Dublin street musician who’s about to give up on his dream when a beautiful young woman takes a sudden interest in his haunting love songs. Their unlikely connection turns out to be deeper and more complex than your everyday romance. INFO (605) 367-6000.

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at home 22The Emily Roberts Home

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Emily Roberts has been in Sioux Falls for 9 years and bought her first house, a townhome, three years ago.

A new development had popped up in southeast Sioux Falls, and Roberts toured a model home.

“I just got this warm, fuzzy feeling,” she says, “and it felt right.”It would be another three months before her home was

completed, which gave her plenty of time to review all the options for woodwork, paint colors and other choices to personalize the design and make it her own.

“I loved the flexibility of being able to use options that the builders had, as well as to go out to other stores in town. For example, I worked with Carpet One on my tile flooring, backsplash tile and carpeting, and appreciated their trendy recommendations as well as how well they worked with my builder. I would just carry little swatches of everything wherever I went.”

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friendly Maltipoo (Maltese Poodle mix). The two-level townhome has an open living room, dining room and kitchen on the main floor and two bedrooms and open space that is adaptable for many uses. Roberts, who is a physician assistant working with high risk pregnancies, placed a desk in the space and a unique ladder bookcase filled with medical books, special pictures and other

mementos. She can work at the desk and look out the windows below while Lukie can also perch nearby and keep a protective eye on things.

At first, Roberts says, she wasn’t sure what to do about decorating from a blank page.

“This was a challenge,” she admits. “I have trouble imagining

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bathrooms, the shower curtain.”For her bedding, she chose a pretty crème color, which stands

out against the brown walls, and filled the bed with pillows, giving it a little touch of glam and elegance. The patterned shower curtain in the bathroom allowed the opportunity to bring in some accent colors.

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Another thing Roberts learned during the process is that you don’t have to break the bank even when you are trying to design your home.

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Her designer friend was a valuable part of her experience. He used his talents in organizing the furniture, hanging all of her artwork, and putting his special touch on each room.

“I walked in and had to learn where he had placed everything,” she laughs. “But that was awesome.”

An upstairs laundry area is tucked away behind wooden doors between the two bedrooms, which is a great convenience. The colors upstairs and throughout the house are a warm mix of browns and ivory, with accents in greens and turquoise, which go

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wraparound counter that also provides space for seating with a few tall stools. Open space above the dark cabinets not only provides spots to feature decorative items, but it also creates more height in the space.

“The whole place feels bigger than it actually is,” Roberts says.That feeling is enhanced by her north-facing home and many

windows that draw in natural light. The living room shades pull up from the bottom and down from the top, so she can adjust them for more light or for privacy.

Just off the kitchen is a spacious closet, which also includes the space under the stairs that goes up to the second floor. Adding shelves created the added perk of a walk-in pantry.

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doors that open out to a small patio. The living room is comfortable and cozy with its overstuffed furniture and a tile-framed fireplace.

As a busy medical professional, Roberts enjoys the fact that lawn care and snow removal are taken care of as part of the neighborhood association. And, even though it is a full development, she has been surprised at how quiet it is.

“Some people may keep to themselves, but there are so many friendly people I’ve met here – and many dog lovers such as myself, like one of my very good friends who lives just two doors down.

There’s a small park and trail area not far away, so she and Lukie have company when they go out for walks.

“We love it here,” she says. “It’s home.”

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Dress for Success Sioux Falls and EmBe are putting on the 3rd Annual In Her Shoes Empowerment Breakfast.Join several members of the community for a a morning of fellowship, inspiration and most importantly, empowerment!

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Don’t turn the page! You’re in the right section. This is the etc for her wine article, I promise. This is not the relationship

advice column; however, there are more similarities between a relationship and wine than one might think. For the wine collector, there are many key factors to nurturing wine so that it will age gracefully and peak at the right moment. Much like a relationship, wines need love and caring too. Below are the keys to nurturing wine (and your relationship) to make this Valentine’s Day a day to remember.

Key #1 Keep Cool. In a budding relationship, it’s important to keep cool and

allow the relationship develop naturally. This is very important

to wines too. While wines are aging, they like to be kept at cooler temperatures. Heat is Enemy Number One for wine. Temperatures higher than 70° F will age a wine more quickly than is usually desirable. And if it gets too much hotter, your wine may get “cooked,” resulting in flat aromas and flavors. The ideal temperature range is between 55° F and 65° F, though this isn’t an exact science. Don’t fret too much if your storage runs a couple degrees warmer, as long as you’re opening the bottles within a few years from their release.

Key #2 Going Steady. Relationships are like roller coasters, but as long as your

relationship has a steady goal, it’s going to last for a long time.

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More important than worrying about achieving a perfect 58°F is avoiding the landmines of rapid, extreme, or frequent temperature swings. On top of cooked flavors, the expansion and contraction of the liquid inside the bottle might push the cork out or cause seepage. Aim for consistency, but don’t get paranoid about minor temperature fluctuations; wines may see worse in transit from the winery to the store. (Even if heat has caused wine to seep out past the cork, that doesn’t always mean the wine is ruined. There’s no way to know until you open it—it could still be delicious.)

Key #3 Turn the Lights Off. Okay, keep calm. We all know what this means in a relationship,

but to wine, light, especially sunlight, can pose a potential problem for long-term storage. The sun’s UV rays can degrade and prematurely age wine. One of the reasons why vintners use colored glass bottles? They’re like sunglasses for wine. Light from household bulbs probably won’t damage the wine itself, but can fade your labels in the long run. Incandescent bulbs may be a bit safer than fluorescent bulbs, which do emit very small amounts of ultraviolet light.

Key #4 Don’t Let Them See You Sweat. Remember the butterflies you felt when you were first dating

your loved one? Did you ever let them see you sweat? Conventional wisdom says that wines should be stored at an ideal humidity level of 70 percent. The theory goes that dry air will dry out the corks, which would let air into the bottle and spoil the wine. Yes, this does happen, but unless you live in a desert or in arctic conditions, it probably won’t happen to you. Anywhere between 50 percent and 80 percent humidity is considered safe, and placing a pan of water in your storage area can improve conditions. Conversely,

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wines need love and caring too.”

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extremely damp conditions can promote mold. This won’t affect a properly sealed wine, but can damage your labels.

Key #5 Sideways. Again, I know what you’re thinking but get your mind out of the

gutter! Traditionally, bottles have been stored on their sides in order to keep the liquid up against the cork, which theoretically should keep the cork from drying out. If you’re planning on drinking these bottles in the near- to mid-term, or if the bottles have alternative closures (screw caps, glass, or plastic corks), this is not necessary. I will say this: horizontal racking is a space-efficient way to store your bottles, and it definitely can’t harm your wines.

Key #6 Good Vibrations. No, no, no, don’t even go there! There is nothing good about

vibrations when it comes to your wine storage. There are theories that vibration could damage wine in the long term by speeding up the chemical reactions in the liquid. Some serious collectors worry about even the subtle vibrations caused by electronic appliances, though there’s little evidence documenting the impacts of this. Significant vibrations could possibly disturb the sediment in older wines and keep them from settling, potentially making them unpleasantly gritty. Unless you live above a train station or are hosting rock concerts, is this likely to be a problem for your short-term storage? No.

Key #7 Location. Location. Location. I don’t know how this pertains to love (maybe being in the

right place at the right time?) For wine storage, it’s finding a cool, not-too-damp space in the basement that can double as a cellar. Rule out your kitchen, laundry room, or boiler room, where hot temperatures could affect your wines, and look for a location not directly in line with light pouring in from a window. You could also buy a small wine cooler and follow the same guidelines: If you keep your wine fridge in a cool place, it won’t have to work so hard, keeping your energy bill down.

Hopefully I’ve been able to give you some vital pieces to the romantic puzzle of your relationship. Probably not; however, I do hope you now have enough information to get started on your wine collection. It’s an exciting adventure that demands attention to detail, a commitment to quality, and a patient soul. Sounds a lot like a relationship to me… Buon Valentino and Carpe Vino!

Riccardo will be spending his Valentine’s Day with Marybeth, his wife of almost 19 years. Their children, Dante, Berent, and Jaxon, will have to cook their own dinner that night. Riccardo is the VP of Sales and Marketing for Fernson Brewing Company in Sioux Falls, SD. For all of your fermentation questions, contact Riccardo at [email protected].

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For years I’ve created playlists on my iPod and iPhone for dinner or while I was working in the kitchen. It’s always fun

to use the tunes to set the mood for whatever I’m cooking. The sounds of New Orleans fill the kitchen when I’m cooking spicy Andouille sausage gumbo. And The Gipsy Kings version of Hotel California (in Spanish of course) puts me in the mood to tap into my inner Rick Bayless and create a Mexican fiesta. With Saint Valentine’s Day approaching, I’m putting together a playlist to set the mood from cocktails through dessert. Now keep in mind that my beloved and I have been married for more than twenty-one years, so the mood I’m trying to set is romantic, not the soundtrack to an X-rated film. Keep your minds out of the gutter.

When I think about the cocktail hour, my mind always drifts to those swanky days of the Rat Pack. When you picture those guys, there’s always a cocktail in their hands. That music makes you

want to kick back and relax, unwind from the day’s work and slip into a new frame of mind. I’m looking for songs that can get the conversation flowing while not dominating the room. That will set the tone for our evening together.

Frank Sinatra songs like “Come Fly With Me” and “I Get a Kick Out of You” are always good, but avoid “My Funny Valentine”. It seems like it would be a sweet love song, but the lyrics are pretty harsh; “Your looks are laughable” are not words that will help you get lucky. Dean Martin’s “That’s Amore” or Mel Torme singing “Coming Home Baby” will get the night swingin’.

For dinner, I’ll start with one of my upbeat favorites “New Frontier” by Donald Fagen. It’s got an early sixties vibe and the lyrics tell a tale of a young man wooing a girl. Then, let’s slide into some of my (and my bride’s) favorite love songs. Here are a few that we’ll be playing.

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As we transition to dessert, I know we’ll end with the two greatest love songs ever written; “God Only Knows” by the Beach Boys is Brian Wilson at his best and “One” by U2 is simply beautiful.

For the Valentine dinner itself, keep the food simple. You want to spend the night with the one you love, not in the kitchen. Focus on each other, instead of a pile of pots and pans.

By the way, Marianne Faithfull’s version of “As Tears Go By” is a downer. I don’t recommend it for dinner music. In fact, I may just need to delete that one. Do yourself a favor, eat something good today.

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There’s a reason why Luverne is always bustling. From the boutique retail shops to the Historic Palace Theatre, and sophisticated eateries to entertaining community events, there’s always something to do in Luverne.

Surrounded by miles of prairie, country living meets modern amenities in a city where neighbors greet neighbors, newcomers are always welcome, and culture is easy to find. Visitors come from miles around to experience our popular attractions.

• Blue Mounds State Park• Brandenburg Gallery• Carnegie Cultural Center• Herreid Military Museum• Hinkly House• Touch the Sky National Tallgrass Prairie Refuge• Historic Palace Theatre

Located just 25 miles from Sioux Falls, Luverne is a great place to live, work and visit.

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to Luverne! Follow Your Heart...

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PARTICIPATING BUSINESSES

February 18th – February 28th!

Player’s cards available at each location.

Drawing held Monday, February 29th. To be eligible, you must visit

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health & well-being 54Eating Disorders: Learn the Signs, Get Help Early

health & well-being 58Good Advice from the Lion Hunter’s Wife

travel 60A Wilmington, NC Getaway

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LOVE the LIFE — discover the heart game!

Visit the 22 Luverne businesses during regular business hours to discover their 8” plush stuffed heart which is hidden in their business & have your player’s

card signed! Grand Prize $500! For more information, please visit www.

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Give Holly a CallLuverne, Minnesota, is a wonderful community to start a business, buy a home, love the life, and Holly can help. Holly J. Sammons | Economic Development Director | City of Luverne. Give her a call at 507-449-5033.

His & HersToast Valentine’s Day

and each other this February 14 - or all

month long! Shop Blue Mound Liquor to find

something unique to celebrate your day. Blue Mound Liquor, 319 W.

Main St., Luverne, MN. (507) 449-5052.

InspirationVisit us at the Sewing Basket for Valentine’s Day project ideas - or visit our website, www.luvsewingbasekt.com for inspiration! The Sewing Basket. 204 E. Main St., Luverne, MN. (507) 283-9769.

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Papik Motors. 801 Commerce Rd., Luverne, MN. (507) 283-9171.

Frog and ToadMar 11 – 13 & 18 – 20 Join the Green Earth Players at the Historic Palace Theatre as they present “Frog and Toad”. 104 E. Main St., Luverne, MN. (507) 283-4339.

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Class of 2016!Grad pad notepads are great for handing out to friends at school

or as open house invitations to include with your graduation

announcements. Each custom designed 4x5.25 inch notepad has 50

pages and can be one or two sided. Find out more at Quality Printing

Paper & Signs at 116 W. Main St., Luverne MN. (888) 933-4457. www.

qualityprinting-luverne.com

One-of-a-Kind ItemsJust a reminder that we will be closed until mid February. Come join us February 18 - 28 for the Luverne Love the Life game. And, of course, see the new and exciting things we brought back from our annual buying trip. Once a year, we meet with miners that come out that one time for a month or so, looking for one-of-a-kind, really cool items! Those Blasted Things, 924 S. Kniss Ave., Luverne, MN. (507) 283-4027.

Free QuoteStop in for a free quote. Competitive rates in all lines of insurance.

We do the shopping for you! Where one call does it all. Offices in Luverne & Pipestone. Kozlowski Insurance. 212 S. Kniss. Luverne,

MN. 877-631-3704 or www.kozlowski-insurance.com

A Little Extra Inspiration

Wear a little extra inspiration with the Give Hope Peaceful bracelet. Featuring a unique

inspirational word, each bracelet represents timeless,

uplifting inspiration. Available at Forget Me

Not Gift Boutique. 57th & Western. (605) 335-9878.

Custom FurnitureThis beautiful custom furniture piece provides storage and allows the homeowner to display mementos and family photos. Dakota Kitchen & Bath. 4101 N. Hainje Avenue. 605-334-9727. www.dakotakitchen.com

Chocolate TreatsFebruary is a month of chocolate

treats at Breadsmith! Cookies, Special K bars, Muffins, Scones,

Coffee Cake, and Babka are some of our favorites. Come give them a try. We are sure to have something

to curb your chocolate cravings! 609 W. 33rd St., (605) 338-1338

and 1813 S. Marion Rd., (605) 275-2338.

Service That Fits Your ScheduleKMWF not only has helpful CPAs, but also provides great service and appointments catered to fit your schedule! Locations in Sioux Falls, Harrisburg, and Lennox. Call 336-7213 to inquire! www.kmwfcpa.com.

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Form + Fashion = Function February 19th Event

Follow your passion and prepare for a career in design. Choose from our

Interior or Fashion Design programs. The Institute of Design & Technology

of SD Interior Décor Program is an educational partner with the

C.I.D. (Certified Interior Decorators International). 525 West 22nd St., 605-275-9728 or www.idtsd.org or

“Like us” on FACEBOOK.

2BeLovedCelebrate the Joy of Us with Two Center Diamonds to Symbolize Each of You. See the collection at Riddle’s Jewelry, corner of 41st and Louise. 605-361-0911.

February DatesMark your calendar and

call to reserve space now for our Divas, Dish and

Design class (Feb 5) and Paint Me a Story class

(Feb 6) and make these delightful designs! Color Me Mine. 3709 W. 41st

St. (605) 362-6055.

Dream Come TrueShop The Dance Line for a wide variety of jewelry this Valentine’s Day. Pieces to make every little dancer’s dream come true. The Dance Line. 2115 S. Minnesota Ave. 335-8242.

All About LoveFebruary is all about love - show that special someone how much you care with a beautiful Mariposa frame

from Good Spirits Fine Wine & Liquor. 41st and

Minnesota. 339-1500.

Sleep TightPut your little ones into the snuggly cuddly goodness of Kickee Pants. There is just nothing better than the soft comfort they will feel in these wardrobe favorites! Available at Stride Rite. 2425 S. Shirley Ave. 605) 362-7728.

Sweets For The Sweet!Make that someone special something they will always keep. Available at Athena Fibers, 3915 S. Hawthorne, 271-0741, www.athenafibers.com.

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Reclaimed WisdomThis hand made sign is made

from reclaimed Wisconsin barn wood and finished with

inspiration. The Blessed Door Furniture Consignment. 41st

and Holly Avenue. Sioux Falls. 605-553-1010.

Specialized Solutions. Superior ResultsThese revolutionary solutions combine pure retinol into three customized formulations for visible, aging, discolorations and breakout prone skin. D’Fabiola. 3701 W. 49th Street, Suite 200C. www.dfabiola.com. (605) 521-8529.

New Year, New YouRing in the New Year with our

hot winter fashions for all ages! Style Icon Boutique - shop

online at www.si-boutique.com

Take Your Date to CarnavalOpen for dinner February 14. Book your reservations today. Carnaval Brazilian Grill. 2401 S. Carolyn Avenue. (605) 361-6328 or carnavalbraziliangrill.com.

Cuddle Up with Someone You

LoveWith a wide variety of shapes, sizes and

sayings on these love pillows. The Robin’s

Nest. 108 W. Willow Street, Harrisburg, SD. (605) 767-0191. www.

therobinsnestsd.net

Open During Construction! The shop is getting a facelift to look as beautiful on the outside as the items we create on the inside! We are open 10-5:30 Tues.-Fri. And 10-3 on Saturday! 225 S. Phillips Ave 605-695-3997. Say Anything Jewelry. www.sayanythingjewelry.com

Gift from the HeartGive a framed photo to your loved one - or best friend - this Valentine’s Day. A true gift from the heart. Available at Jojo’s Closet. 1404 E. Cedar St., Brandon, SD. (605) 951-6925.

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Warm & CozyStay warm and cozy during

the frigid winter months in an adorable blanket scarf from

Beautique Boutique. Just $20 - and so many to choose from!

1316 E. Cedar St., Brandon, SD. (605) 582-2882.

A Cuddly HugYour kids will love a cuddly new friend for Valentine’s Day. So much better than chocolate! Kidtopia. 57th & Western, 605-334-4825 and Dawley Farms.

Full PotentialHelp your hair reach its full

potential from the new line from Bumble and bumble. Works

together to help reduce hair loss* by 46 percent in four weeks.

All three steps are infused with Bumble and bumble’s Hair

Preserve Blend™ to promote hair strength and elasticity for thicker-

feeling hair. Get yours at Rainn Salon and Spa. 57th & Western.

(605) 521-5099.

The Largest SelectionThe Diamond Room proudly features the Sylvie collection as part of the largest selection of engagement rings in the area, with over 700 styles from a variety of designers. The Diamond Room. 3501 W. 57th Street. (605) 362-0008.

Class of 2017! Ready to Start your future NOW? Apply today

for a spot on Julie Prairie Seniors ModSquad team. The Ultimate Senior Portrait Experience

awaits. Call 605-359-6640 or e-mail [email protected]. Julie Prairie Photography. 400

N. Main, Downtown Sioux Falls, SD.

Soft Toy SillinessThe full range of soft toy silliness - now available to buy at Eddy Joy Baby Boutique! Explore all the quirky cuteness from the creators of the softest toys you have ever hugged, cuddled and adored. Irresistibly cuddly, sophisticatedly silly, hilariously humorous, a perfect gift for all ages! Eddy Joy Baby Boutique. 57th & Western. (605) 275-0014.

Creative Energy CandleThe Creative Energy Candle is an organic scented hand-poured soy candle that, when burned, melts

to create a beautiful scent, as well as a healthy body lotion suitable for skin. Only at Radiance Day Spa!

6209 S. Pinnacle Pl. (605) 275-9535.

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Snap To It!Ginger Snaps is a new style of

interchangeable jewelry that features “fashion snaps,” button-like charms

you snap in and out of stylish bracelets, rings and more. Ginger Snaps is all about heart and soul,

sweetness and sass, and brazen individuality. Perfect for Valentine’s Day! Available at Young & Richards.

222 S. Phillips Ave., (605) 336-2815.

Fill Her HeartFill her heart this Valentine’s Day with this gorgeous metal mesh heart - filled with candy or rose petals - for just $19.99. Josephine’s Floral Design. 401 E. 8th St. 338-9290.

M’Lis Gets You ThereReach your New Year’s goals — faster — with M’lis Personalized Solutions. Discover the complete beauty nutrition Wellness System at Spa 2000. 224 N. Phillips Ave. (605) 361-2600.

Designed to InspireSymbolic personal talisman jewelry designed to inspire.

Made with sterling silver and 14K gold! Prices

starting at $150 at You’ve Been Framed. 57th &

Western. 361-9229.

Visit Our Selections GalleryWe’ve streamlined the home-building process. Interactive displays and large samples allow you to view and touch the elements needed when designing your new Ronning home. Make all of your decisions — under one roof. Call to schedule your appointment today. 401 E. 12th Street. (605) 336-6000 or www.ronningcompanies.com

Let’s Party!The Cookie Jar creates party cookies big enough to serve

16-75 people! Fresh baked and decorated by hand. Let’s party! The Cookie Jar. 230 S. Phillips

Ave. (605) 978-0991.

Pamper YourselfSimply Perfect line for Sullivans.

Introduced with made-in-the-USA bath, body and home spa products. Prices ranging from

$5-$28. Simply Perfect. 401 E. 8th St. 605-338-3599, www.

simplyperfectstore.com

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Eating Disorders:

Learn the Signs, Get Help Early

BY KELLY THURMAN, FOR AVERA HEALTH

Although her memory of the time is foggy, Steph Klemann recalls a time when she was so malnourished due to anorexia

nervosa and bulimia, she had trouble answering basic questions. “I’d start a sentence and then just trail off.”

Her eating disorders became so severe that she needed hospitalization. Yet now, at age 30, Steph is proud to say she has recovered with the help of therapy and support from family and friends. She is among an estimated 20 million women and 10 million men who have an eating disorder some time in their life.

An eating disorder can manifest in several ways but often has underlying factors such as depression or anxiety — making the treatment approach multidimensional, explained Mary Dressing, LPC-MH, RD, LN, a registered dietitian and mental health counselor with Avera Medical Group Internal Medicine Women’s.

Common diagnoses include: • Anorexia nervosa: severe diet restrictions and weight loss, over-

exercising

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Dressing specializes in treating eating disorders and provides educational talks in the community to help loved ones recognize the signs before a person becomes fully enmeshed.

“Early intervention and prevention are so much more beneficial than waiting until the disease progresses,” Dressing said.

“Common signs of an eating disorder may include withdrawing

from people, becoming extremely picky with

foods, avoiding eating around others, obsessing

over weight and frequently heading to the

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“Treatment lasts three to seven years, on average, and for some people, recovery is a lifelong process.”

Common signs of an eating disorder may include withdrawing from people, becoming extremely picky with foods, avoiding eating around others, obsessing over weight and frequently heading to the restroom after meals.

Steph, who lives in Sioux Falls and works as a licensed social worker and caseworker, sought inpatient treatment for her eating disorder at age 21 when her therapist and family decided that she needed more help than an outpatient program could provide.

She spent one month in inpatient treatment and four more in a residential living center, before returning to outpatient therapy with Dressing, whom she began seeing at age 18.

Steph recalls withdrawing from her friends, severely restricting her eating and exercising excessively.

“Your life is just all about your eating disorder,” she said. “Every action I did revolved around food — exercising and doing things to compensate if I did eat or figuring out ways how to not eat.”

Eating disorders are often a form of control, so Steph had to effectively retrain her brain.

“Once people develop an eating disorder it’s very difficult to solve this on their own,” Dressing said. “It’s so overwhelming. Their thoughts become so distorted.”

As a dietitian, Dressing created a meal plan for Steph and helped her develop correct thinking around food. For example, someone with an eating disorder might think by eating a bowl of ice cream, she or he will gain five pounds. Dressing works to correct that misinformation by focusing on the facts — how many calories are in a bowl of ice cream versus the calories it takes to put on a pound of body fat.

Beyond retraining thoughts, Dressing also teaches coping mechanisms and works on other related issues whether it might be depression or anxiety.

Thankfully, Steph didn’t suffer any long-lasting health effects, which can often include infertility, osteoporosis and heart problems. Married and with a son, she is working to help others by organizing a local support group — a registered group of the National Association of Anorexia Nervosa and Associated Disorders.

“I want to be there for others to say, ‘I’ve been there. You can get to this side. I’ve been there and I made it to this side,’” Steph said.

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EVENTS:

ANAD Eating Disorder Support Group Third Thursday of the month 7 p.m.Caille Branch Library 4100 S. Carnegie Circle

Learn the SignsLunch and learn panel discussion with eating disorder survivorsTuesday, Feb. 23 Noon Prairie Center 1000 E. 23rd St.

Signs of Eating DisordersA discussion for parents about the signs of eating disorders. Thursday, Feb. 25 7 p.m.Prairie Center For information: 877-282-8372

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That’s what a lot of guys say when they walk into Orthopedic Institute’s walk-in clinic, OI NOW. So says Ryan Slaba who

runs the clinic. Women just seem to know what’s best for their husbands, children and themselves says Slaba, a physician’s assistant, who has been running orthopedic walk-in clinics for 6 years.

“A lot of people are very active and don’t have time to schedule an appointment,” says Slaba. “They want to get things taken care of right away.”

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That’s where OI NOW shines. Men and women on the go need things taken care of now, says Slaba, without an appointment. Sprains. Strains. Fractures. Work-related injuries, low back pain, overuse injuries, sports related injuries – anything orthopedic. When it comes to non-emergency orthopedic care, OI NOW can do it all—take an X-Ray, MRI or a CT scan, give an injection, wrap an ankle, set a bone and get people on their way. And, if necessary, OI NOW will make referrals to the broad spectrum of experienced surgeons on the OI staff.

Most of all, OI NOW patients get personalized care. “We listen,” says Slaba. “We problem solve. And we do the right thing for the patient.”

OI NOW sees just about everything and everyone, from school aged kids, to stay-at-home moms, to lion hunters—as evidenced by the ironic case of Troy Swift, electrical contractor, athlete and lion hunter. The hunt took place in New Mexico. It was a

dangerous, grueling 60-hour man and dog chase and Swift bagged a large male mountain lion without a scratch. But, the next day, while playing basketball, Swift went up for a dunk and on the way down twisted his knee. “Everyone on the court heard it go “POP!’” said Swift.

Swift’s wife, Kimberly, told him to go to OI NOW. Diagnosis: a torn meniscus. Slaba referred Swift to a surgeon. Michael Adler, MD, the

surgeon on call for Orthopedic Institute, performed the surgical repair, and today Swift feels good, has his stability back, and is working and taking care of livestock.

Swift says he got great care from everyone. But what he liked most was “how fast they got me in.” Swift injured himself between Christmas and New Years in New Mexico and drove home. “I went into OI NOW on a Monday and had surgery on Friday of that same week,” said Swift. “They expedited me through the process.”

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60 mind-body-spirit | TRAVEL

Wilmington, North Carolina, is known as America’s Best Riverfront, with three beautiful island beaches and

a vibrant scenic Riverwalk along boutiques, cafes, bars, and restaurants. This historic southern city has several year-round attractions, with popular events happening all season long.

Rich in history, Wilmington was one of the first big ports along North Carolina. There are some gorgeous mansions restored to their perfect condition, including the Bellamy Mansion, which was built for physician and planter John Dillard Bellamy and his family on the eve of the Civil War. With 10,000 square feet, this

A Wilmington, NC

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mansion also has very meticulously-recreated gardens. You can also tour the USS Battleship North Carolina, which fought in World War II and is hard to miss along Wilmington’s waterfront.

Hop on the trolley and explore the cobblestone streets of downtown, or choose to go on a carriage tour or an evening

ghost tour to learn more about the history of Wilmington. Take the History Walking Tour and discover hidden history from the Victorian era and see what life was like in Wilmington during the Civil War. You can also find many shops and boutiques in downtown Wilmington, from the quirky to the quaint. The cafés

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Dancer! and restaurants are world-class, offering local options that can not be beat. Enjoy a sushi lunch at Genki Sushi, try a giant sandwich at South College Sandwich & Deli, or savor some comfort food from the Copper Penny. The Peppered Cupcake will serve you one of the best cupcakes you’ve ever had, and Front Street Brewery will pour you some fantastic craft beer. Do all of this will enjoying the beautiful views of Cape Fear River. Wilmington is home to the University of North Carolina, which means the nightlife is abundant. You will find a bar on almost every corner in the downtown area, where there’s something for everyone, from rooftop dancing to the fancy martini. Live music is available every weekend as well.

The theatre scene here is prevalent, with many exceptional concerts, plays, and events hosted by regional groups. Some people have labeled Wilmington the “Hollywood of the South,”

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Wilmington is known for its annual Azalea Festival, held in the springtime, and Riverfest, held every fall along the water. There are plenty of other festivals occurring annually, which makes any time of year a good time to visit the city. Just a short drive away are three island beaches, Carolina Beach, Kure Beach, and Wrightsville Beach, each with its own festivals and other attractions. Cape Fear Riverboats offers several cruises, including

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64 mind-body-spirit | TRAVEL

the Narrated Lunch and Sightseeing Cruise, which is an hour and a half aboard the Henrietta III on the scenic Cape Fear River and includes a Riverboat Luncheon Buffet. Wilmington Water Tours is a state-of-the-art catamaran serving downtown Wilmington and offering a variety of scheduled cruises throughout the year. The Sunset Cruise is a great way to end your day, with a relaxing atmosphere with live acoustic music, a full bar and a mesmerizing view of the sunset on the horizon. The Full Moon Cruise glides along the waterfront under the stars on the Cape Fear River.

Wilmington might be a small town, but it is big on attractions and entertainment. It is one of the most unique towns along the Carolina coastline, and has something for everyone.

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parenting & pregnancy 68A Grateful Heart: How one mother embraces life with a heart defect

for kids 72Valentine’s Day Crafts for Kids

celebrations 74Love Every Day

best books 76

cute kids 78Submit Your Child’s Photo

best friends 80Submit Your Pet’s Photo

historical marker 821851 Indian Treaty

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68 friends & family | PARENTING & PREGNANCY

It all started with a health check by the nurse in 5th grade during school. Naomi Richer, now 31, remembers what she was told

at that time.“The nurse seemed concerned after she listened to my heart,”

she says. “She asked if I had ever been told I had a heart murmur. I told her I hadn’t and that was really the end of the conversation at that time.”

The soon-to-be mother of two never remembers feeling any signs that would have indicated a heart condition. She played sports and experienced a typical childhood with no complications.

And during a sports physical in 8th grade, Naomi was again asked if she had a heart murmur. Again, her reply was no. However, this time Naomi was referred to a cardiologist, who ordered an echocardiogram. The test revealed she did, indeed, have a heart murmur.

“As the years passed, I continued to feel fine, but would have my condition monitored through a cardiologist at Sanford,” Naomi says. “Everything seemed the same until I was pregnant with my first child, Brian.”

In the beginning of 2014, Naomi was referred to Sanford

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“Dr. Steffen told me I had subaortic membrane and aortic mitral insufficiency – both of which are defects I was born with,” Naomi says. “Neither were severe enough to require treatment – only routine monitoring.”

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“I tried to stay physically active and exercise at least three to four times a week,

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son was born, I used a jogger stroller and would

run with him. It was a great way to keep active.”

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close tightly.Naomi, who used to be a cardiology nurse at Sanford, trusted

Dr. Steffen and followed her physician’s advice of maintaining a healthy lifestyle.

“I tried to stay physically active and exercise at least three to four times a week, and eat a heart-healthy diet,” she says. “Once my son was born, I used a jogger stroller and would run with him. It was a great way to keep active.”

Now, Naomi has a happy, healthy 20-month old and is expecting her second baby in July. She continues to see Dr. Steffen for routine heart checks, eat healthy and stay active – and her condition remains under control.

“If I begin to have uncontrollable issues with my heart defect, a

valve replacement could be in my future,” Naomi says. “But at this point, it’s not necessary.”

Naomi trusts in her faith and the expertise of her heart team at Sanford to give her the best care possible. She lives her life to the fullest, enjoys every moment and looks forward to a happy, healthy future with her friends and family.

“I know I’m in good hands – no matter what happens,” she says. “Dr. Steffen is both knowledgeable and caring, which has really helped me a lot. I truly feel like she has the best interest for my baby and me. I am grateful she is my doctor.”

To make an appointment at Sanford’s Adult Congenital Heart Clinic, call (605) 312-2200.

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Stained Glass Paper HeartsMaterials Needed: 1 1/2 cups all-purpose flour, 1 teaspoon vegetable oil, 1/2 cup granulated sugar, 1 1/2 cups water, wax paper, assorted colors tissue paper, and paint brushes or sponges.

Instructions: Mix together the flour, sugar, oil, and water and stir over low heat until smooth. Tape a large piece of waxed paper to your work surface, then brush glue on one half of the waxed paper. Tear or cut the tissue paper into small pieces, then lay the pieces over the glue, overlapping until the surface is covered. Carefully brush a thin layer of glue over the pieces of tissue paper, then fold the other half of the waxed paper over and flatten until smooth. Let it dry completely, and cut into heart shapes. Punch a hole, then tie with a string and hang from your windows for a beautiful stained glass effect.

72 friends & family | FOR KIDS

BY JESSICA WEISCHEDEL

VALENTINE’S DAY CRAFTS

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Twig Cupid ArrowsMaterials Needed: Twigs, felt, craft glue, and string.

Instructions: Cut feathers with fringe from pieces of felt, then cut out small triangles to form the arrow tips. Use craft glue to adhere to twigs and form cupid’s arrows. Tie a piece of cute string into a bow just below the feather of the arrow. Bundle these arrows together and tie them in a cute bow. If you don’t want to use twigs, this will work with straws as well. This will make a very unique Valentine for somebody special.

Celery RoseMaterials Needed: 1 stalk of celery, knife, red and green craft paint, white paper, and a paint brush.

Instructions: Simply cut the bottom off of a stalk of celery, then brush red paint onto the cut portion of the end. Press down onto a pice of white paper, creating a shape that resembles a rose. Paint green to create the stem and some leafs and thorns, and you have a painted rose.

Fingerprint Love BugsMaterials Needed: Cupcake liners, construction paper, black paint, glue stick, and scissors.

Instructions: Fold the cupcake liner in half, then cut out a heart. Use your thumb with black paint and carefully press down to make the love bug’s head on the construction paper. Next, glue on the cupcake liner heart shapes to create the body of the bug. Once dry, add some fingerprints on the cupcake liners with black paint, then draw on some antennas.

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74 friends & family | CELEBRATIONS

1) Be giving with a plethora of compliments. Don’t stop there, give them examples and let them know you really see them.

Love Every DayBY AMITY SHAY

LOVE IS WORTHY OF SO MUCH MORE THAN JUST ONE DAY, SO I SAY, LET’S CELEBRATE VALENTINE’S EVERY DAY. LOVE HAS MANY DIFFERENT DEFINITIONS, DEFINE YOURS. FOR ME AND THE FEW THAT TAKE UP GRAND

SPACE IN MY HEART WE ROCK OUT VALENTINE’S DAY. WE ARE GOING TO SHARE OUR MANY WAYS WE COUNT THE LOVE WE SHARE DAILY. HERE ARE SOME OF MY FAVORITES.

2) Cuddle. On the couch, beneath a blanket fort, under the stars and when they need it most but don’t show it.

3) Inspire and cultivate their creative rock star. Shop antiques shops, wander craft stores and get lost at flea markets.1 2 3

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Love is time, energy and engagement of one’s self. Those quite moments when you feel heard are priceless. Most importantly those tender moments shouldn’t be saved for just one day. Your love and your loved ones should be celebrated everyday. Valentine’s Day is a reminder of how hard people have fought to be with the ones they loved and simply to be loved. So this year, and every year after, hold

on to the thoughtful air that encircles Valentine’s Day and make it a point to share love daily. Love on!

7) Cook together. Create gourmet dinners and also epic fails of tiramisu and ugly foam lattes.

8) Hold hands in the car while serenading them. Ultimately engaged in the love you share, while driving down that journey together; hand in hand.

9) Go on dates, lots of them. To the park. To the movies or my personal favorite; a stroll down Phillips Ave.

10) Leave love notes, loving affirmations for them to find randomly. On the fridge, on the steering wheel, in their pocket, atop the kombucha. Everywhere.

11) Say I love you. Mean it.

12) Lend a helping hand, be it dishes, laundry or detailing the car. All will be reciprocated warmly.

13) Dance. Even if you think you cannot. Invite a goofy dance party into your living room.

14) Make music. Strum on a guitar, put on a melodic piano show, sing karaoke or head to a concert ( KISS is sold out, sorry babe).

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4) Show them you love them more than anything, including the next best season on Netflix. So let them pick.

5) Listen. Be active in their lives. Ask questions and engage.

6) Flourish with flowers; plant them, buy them, have them delivered, leave them on the dinner table or surprise them with a single stem on their car.

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76 friends & family | CHILDREN’S BOOKS

THESE ARE JUST SOME OF THE WONDERFUL BOOKS FOR CHILDREN WE HAVE COME ACROSS THIS MONTH. WE HOPE TO SHARE

WITH YOU SOME YOU HAVE NOT SEEN BEFORE AND ALSO INTRODUCE OTHERS BEING RELEASED IN THE NEAR FUTURE. ENJOY.

Best Books

Dinosaur Rescue!by Penny DaleAll of your favorite dinosaurs from Dinosaur Dig! and Dinosaur Zoom! are back, but this time they are busy saving the day! Children will be enthralled by the wonderful illustrations as the dinosaurs rescue one another. But don’t worry, there’s a happy ending for everyone!Ages 2 yrs - 5 yrsCandlewickpress.com

Judy Moody, Mood Martianby Megan McDonaldWill the real Judy Moody please stand up? In honor of Backwards Day, Judy Moody decides to turn that frown upside down, make lemonade out of lemons, and be nice to stinky little brothers. In fact, Judy becomes a NOT moody, cool-as-a-cucumber neat freak for one whole entire day. But when her combed hair, matching outfits, and good moods hang around for days after, her friends begin to worry. Could this smiley Judy be an imposter?It’s Backwards Day, so Judy Moody double-dares herself to become Queen of the Good Mood for one whole week. Can she do it?Ages 6 yrs - 9 yrsCandlewickpress.com

Maps Activity Bookby Aleksandra Mizielinska; Daniel MizielinskiFollowing the best-selling Maps, the Mizielinskis return with a companion activity book. Bursting with fascinating facts and puzzles from around the world, this book offers hours of entertainment to young adventurers. Informative and inspiring, the myriad activities in this book challenge the reader to discover something new and explore their imagination to draw, decorate and design on every pull-out page.Ages 7 yrs - 10 yrsCandlewickpress.com

Fizzy’s Lunch Lab: Nelly Nitpick, Kid Food Criticby Jamie MichalakYou can’t fool Nelly Nitpick: she’s one tough food critic, and she does not like vegetables. But she’s coming to Fizzy’s Lunch Lab, the fantabulous high-tech kitchen where the food is not just delicious, it’s healthy, too. The Lunch Labbers are frantically scrambling to put together just the right meal for Nelly and having fun while they’re at it. Will an entrée of bean burger and sweet potato fries pass Nelly’s taste test, even though it’s secretly full of veggies? Get ready for the return of favorite Lunch Lab characters—including the Freezer Burn band—plus some tasty recipes and food facts.Ages 6 yrs - 9 yrsCandlewickpress.com

Digby O’Day and the Great Diamond Robberyby Shirley HughesDigby and Percy, best friends forever, have decided to take a vacation by the sea. Little do they know they’re about to drive right into another daring adventure! No sooner do they arrive at the Hotel Splendide when a very important guest—the fabulous pop star Peaches Meow—discovers that her priceless diamond necklace is missing. Can Digby and Percy track down the sinister figures at the heart of the mystery?Ages 5 yrs - 8 yrsCandlewickpress.com

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Inside and Out: New Yorkby Josh CochranSee New York unfold in this stunning first title from Inside and Out, a series of double-sided wall charts that open out to more than two and a half feet. Take a stroll past iconic buildings and spot more than eighty objects in a compelling game of search and find. Then flip the chart over to see cutaways that reveal the city behind the scenes.Ages 7 yrs - 10 yrsCandlewickpress.com

AnimaliumWelcome to the Museumby Jenny BroomWelcome to the Museum is a series of books set on the “walls” of the printed page, showcasing the world’s finest collections of objects — from natural history to art. Open 365 days a year and unrestricted by the constraints of physical space, each title in this series is organized into galleries that display more than 200 full-color specimens accompanied by lively, informative text. Offering hours of learning, this first title within the series — Animalium — presents the animal kingdom in glorious detail with illustrations from Katie Scott, an unparalleled new talent.Ages 8 yrs - 12 yrsCandlewickpress.com

Maisy’s Birthday Party Sticker Bookby Lucy CousinsMaisy’s fans are invited to take their place at her party, using stickers to fill in the details on every page. There are prizes to add to the treasure hunt, party bags to fill, a room to decorate with balloons and streamers, and a special dress to pick out for the star. Happy birthday to Maisy!Ages 3 yrs - 7 yrsCandlewickpress.com

Shaun the Sheep: The Flock Factorby Martin HowardIt’s talent-show time on the farm, and the roosters and chickens are banding together in hopes of beating out their rivals, the sheep. Meanwhile, Shirley, a sheep whose flair for singing is as large as her frame, has a big problem — a massive case of stage fright. Can Shaun the sheep convince his jittery friend to wow the mole judges and take home the prize? Shaun the Sheep fans both old and new will flock to this funny, original story inspired by the internationally popular animated TV show.Ages 5 yrs - 8 yrsCandlewickpress.com

Benny and Penny in Lost and Found! by Geoffrey HayesIt’s not even breakfast time but Benny is already in a bad mood. And when he sets out in the fog to find his missing hat, he leads himself and his sister Penny straight into... big trouble!Once again Geoffrey Hayes, the winner of the Geisel Award for best early reader, displays his talent at showing finely articulated emotions, as two tiny mice give us a hugely valuable lesson in what it takes to be a leader.Ages 4+Candlewickpress.com

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80 friends & family | BEST FRIENDS

Jacey, best friend of Jamie and Jordana Whipkey

Griffin, best friend of Burke Nuebel

Duey (cat) and Knox (dog), best friends of Karlie and Mike

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1851 Indian Treaty

On July 23, 1851, at Traverse des Sioux, near present-day St. Peter, Minnesota, 35 Sisseton and Wahpeton chiefs and headmen signed a

treaty that had a profound effect on the future city of Sioux Falls. More than 24 million acres of tribal land, including all land east of the Big Sioux River, was ceded to the federal government and became available for settlement. In 1856 settlers arrived to survey the area, and years later settlers founded the tiny village of Sioux Falls, Minnesota Territory.

The treaty granted the tribes annuities, $275,000 cash, and other rights. Unscrupulous traders claimed that they were owed large sums. After the chiefs made their mark on the treaty document, traders persuaded them to pay tribal debts by signing away the cash payment.

Starvation, hopelessness, and smoldering resentment over the loss of land and treaty cash erupted into the Dakota Conflict of 1862. Following the slayings of Judge Joseph Amidon and his son William, Sioux Falls City was abandoned. Seven years elapsed before the town site was settled a second time.

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Chief Little CrowLittle Crow was born in 1810 in the

Dakota village of Kaposia near present day St. Paul, Minnesota. His father was

the village chief. He not only became known as a fearless warrior, but also

learned to read and write English. He became chief and speaker for his tribe in

1846.

On the night of August 17, 1862, Little Crow was called upon to lead his people

in the war that is now known as the Dakota Conflict. He gave the order to

clear out settlers all from the Big Sioux River valley, which led to the deaths of

Judge Joseph Amidon and his son Willie.

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