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父亲节的事实 Facts on Father’s Day

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父亲节的事实 Facts on Father’s Day• 父亲节是寄送卡片第 4 多的节日 , 每年约有 8

百 70 万张卡片。 Father’s Day is the fourth-largest card-sending occasion with 87 million cards given every year.

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父亲节的事实 Facts on Father’s Day• 父亲节是寄送卡片第 4 多的节日 , 每年约有 8

百 70 万张卡片。 Father’s Day is the fourth-largest card-sending occasion with 87 million cards given every year.

• 父亲节是美国送礼物的假日当中最小的节日 , 2014 年里一般的人会花费大约 US$113.80 在送给父亲的礼物上。Father’s Day is the smallest American gift-giving holiday, and the average person will spend US$113.80 on gifts for dad in 2014.

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父亲节的事实 Facts on Father’s Day• 父亲们对于他们在父亲节所收到的礼物会比较满

足 , 相对于母亲在母亲节时的反应。Dads tend to be more satisfied with their Father’s Day gifts than mothers are on Mother’s Day

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父亲节的事实 Facts on Father’s Day• 父亲们对于他们在父亲节所收到的礼物会比较满

足 , 相对于母亲在母亲节时的反应。Dads tend to be more satisfied with their Father’s Day gifts than mothers are on Mother’s Day

• 父亲们在父亲节时不会预期会免除做杂务或家务 , 不像母亲们在母亲节时那样。Dads don’t expect to be relieved of chores and household responsibilities on Father’s Day, unlike moms on Mother’s Day.

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• 泰国 – 父亲被定为国王的生日。Thailand – Father’s Day is set as the birthday of the king

父亲节的事实 Facts on Father’s Day

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父亲的影响的实际数据 Facts on Dad’s Impact

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父亲的影响的实际数据 Facts on Dad’s Impact • 63% 的青年自杀案来自没有父亲的家庭 ( 美国卫

生部调查 ) - 平均的 5 倍。63% of youth suicides are from fatherless homes (US Dept. Of Health/Census) – 5 times the average.

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父亲的影响的实际数据 Facts on Dad’s Impact • 63% 的青年自杀案来自没有父亲的家庭 ( 美国卫

生部调查 ) - 平均的 5 倍。63% of youth suicides are from fatherless homes (US Dept. Of Health/Census) – 5 times the average.

• 90% 的无家可归和离家出走的孩子是来自没有父亲的家庭 - 平均的 32 倍。90% of all homeless and runaway children are from fatherless homes – 32 times the average.

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父亲的影响的实际数据 Facts on Dad’s Impact • 85% 展示行为障碍的孩子来自没有父亲的家庭 -

平均的 20 倍。 ( 疾病控制中心 )85% of all children who show behavior disorders come from fatherless homes – 20 times the average. (Center for Disease Control)

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父亲的影响的实际数据 Facts on Dad’s Impact • 85% 展示行为障碍的孩子来自没有父亲的家庭 -

平均的 20 倍。 ( 疾病控制中心 )85% of all children who show behavior disorders come from fatherless homes – 20 times the average. (Center for Disease Control)

• 80% 的有愤怒问题的强奸犯来自没有父亲的家庭 - 平均的 14 倍。80% of rapists with anger problems come from fatherless homes --14 times the average. (Justice & Behavior, Vol 14, p. 403-26)

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• 71% 的中学辍学者来自没有父亲的家庭 - 平均的 9 倍。 ( 国家校长协会报告 )71% of all high school dropouts come from fatherless homes – 9 times the average. (National Principals Association Report)

父亲的影响的实际数据 Facts on Dad’s Impact

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• 71% 的中学辍学者来自没有父亲的家庭 - 平均的 9 倍。 ( 国家校长协会报告 )71% of all high school dropouts come from fatherless homes – 9 times the average. (National Principals Association Report)

• 75% 滥用化学品中心的少年病人来自没有父亲的家庭 - 平均的 10 倍。75% of all adolescent patients in chemical abuse centers come from fatherless homes – 10 times the average. (Rainbows for All God’s Children)

父亲的影响的实际数据 Facts on Dad’s Impact

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• 70% 国家操作的中心里的青少年来自没有父亲的家庭 - 平均的 9 倍。70% of youths in state-operated institutions come from fatherless homes – 9 times the average. (U.S. Dept. of Justice, Sept. 1988)

父亲的影响的实际数据 Facts on Dad’s Impact

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• 70% 国家操作的中心里的青少年来自没有父亲的家庭 - 平均的 9 倍。70% of youths in state-operated institutions come from fatherless homes – 9 times the average. (U.S. Dept. of Justice, Sept. 1988)

• 85% 在监狱里的青少年来自没有父亲的家庭 - 平均的 20 倍。85% of all youths in prison come from fatherless homes – 20 times the average. (Fulton Co. Georgia, Texas Dept. of Correction)

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父亲的角色 The Role of A Father

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父亲的角色 The Role of A Father有人曾经说过’要成为一个孩子的父亲只需要几秒钟 , 但是要做一个父亲却要用一生的时间’。Someone once said ‘It takes a few seconds to father a child but a life time to be a Father’.

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父亲的角色 The Role of A Father有人曾经说过’要成为一个孩子的父亲只需要几秒钟 , 但是要做一个父亲却要用一生的时间’。Someone once said ‘It takes a few seconds to father a child but a life time to be a Father’.•供应者 Provider

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父亲的角色 The Role of A Father有人曾经说过’要成为一个孩子的父亲只需要几秒钟 , 但是要做一个父亲却要用一生的时间’。Someone once said ‘It takes a few seconds to father a child but a life time to be a Father’.•供应者 Provider•保护者 Protector

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父亲的角色 The Role of A Father有人曾经说过’要成为一个孩子的父亲只需要几秒钟 , 但是要做一个父亲却要用一生的时间’。Someone once said ‘It takes a few seconds to father a child but a life time to be a Father’.•供应者 Provider•保护者 Protector •祭司 Priest

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父亲的角色 The Role of A Father有人曾经说过’要成为一个孩子的父亲只需要几秒钟 , 但是要做一个父亲却要用一生的时间’。Someone once said ‘It takes a few seconds to father a child but a life time to be a Father’.•供应者 Provider•保护者 Protector •祭司 Priest •个人 Personal

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供应者 Provider

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供应者 Provider马太 7:11你们虽然邪恶,尚且知道把好东西给儿女,何况你们在天上的父,难道不更把好东西赐给求他的人吗?

Matthew 7:11If you, then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give good gifts to those who ask him!

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供应者 Provider

• 忠告 Counsel

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供应者 Provider

• 忠告 Counsel• 智慧 Wisdom

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供应者 Provider

• 忠告 Counsel• 智慧 Wisdom• 友谊 Friendship

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供应者 Provider

• 忠告 Counsel• 智慧 Wisdom• 友谊 Friendship• 神的角度…等等 Godly Perspective…etc

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保护者 Protector

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保护者 Protector箴言 3:11-12我儿,不可轻看耶和华的管教,也不可厌恶他的责备;因为耶和华所爱的,他必责备,正如父亲责备他喜爱的儿子一样。

Proverbs 3:11-12My son, do not despise the LORD's discipline and do not resent his rebuke, because the LORD disciplines those he loves, as a father the son he delights in.

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保护者 Protector

• 道德腐败 Immorality

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保护者 Protector

• 道德腐败 Immorality• 不好的影响 Wrong influence

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保护者 Protector

• 道德腐败 Immorality• 不好的影响 Wrong influence• 懒惰 Laziness

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保护者 Protector

• 道德腐败 Immorality• 不好的影响 Wrong influence• 懒惰 Laziness• 错误的决定…等等 Wrong decisions….etc.

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祭司 Priest

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祭司 Priest• 你为你的家庭站在缺口中

You stand in the gap for your family

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祭司 Priest• 你为你的家庭站在缺口中

You stand in the gap for your family• 你祷告 / 建立祭坛

You pray / build the altar

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祭司 Priest• 你为你的家庭站在缺口中

You stand in the gap for your family• 你祷告 / 建立祭坛

You pray / build the altar • 你影响他们生命的终点

You speak destiny into their lives

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个人 Personal

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个人 Personal玛拉基书 4:6a他要使父亲的心转向儿女,儿女的心转向父亲…

Malachi 4:6a He will turn the hearts of the fathers to their children, and the hearts of the children to their fathers…

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个人 Personal

• 信任 Trust

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个人 Personal

• 信任 Trust• 时间 Time

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个人 Personal

• 信任 Trust• 时间 Time• 谈话 Talk

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罗马书 8:15你们接受的,不是奴仆的灵,使你们仍旧惧怕;你们接受的,是使人成为嗣子的灵,使我们呼叫“阿

爸、父”。

Romans 8:15 “So you have not received a spirit that makes you fearful

slaves. Instead, you received God’s Spirit when he adopted you as his own children. Now we call him, Abba, Father.” (NLT)

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