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您的探索现在开始。
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活出没有遗憾的人生,活出有目标的人生 Living a life without REGRETS,
living a life with PURPOSE
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在这一系列,我们倡导 In this series, we advocate:
• 在现在做更好的决定然后以后有较少的遗憾。 Making better decisions NOW and having fewer regrets LATER.
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我希望我知道 “ I Wish I Knew”:• 如何做出更好的决定
How to make better decisions
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我希望我知道 “ I Wish I Knew”:• 如何做出更好的决定
How to make better decisions
• 如何摆脱债务 How to get out of debts
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我希望我知道 “ I Wish I Knew”:• 如何做出更好的决定
How to make better decisions
• 如何摆脱债务 How to get out of debts
• 如何获得财务利差 How to gain financial margin
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我希望我知道 “ I Wish I Knew”:• 如何做出更好的决定
How to make better decisions
• 如何摆脱债务 How to get out of debts
• 如何获得财务利差 How to gain financial margin
• 如何有一个牢固的婚姻 11 月 9/10 日 How to have a strong marriage 9/10 Nov
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我希望我知道 “ I Wish I Knew”:• 如何建立一个健康的约会生活 11 月
17 日 How to build a healthy dating life 16/17 Nov
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我希望我知道 “ I Wish I Knew”:• 如何建立一个健康的约会生活 11 月
17 日 How to build a healthy dating life 17 Nov • 如何控制愤怒 11 月 23/24 日
How to keep anger at bay 23/24 Nov
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我希望我知道 “ I Wish I Knew”:• 如何建立一个健康的约会生活 11 月
17 日 How to build a healthy dating life 17 Nov • 如何控制愤怒 11 月 23/24 日
How to keep anger at bay 23/24 Nov
• 如何不要烦忧 How to not worry 30 Nov / 1 Dec
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态度
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态度是人们在自身道德观和价值观基础上对事物的评价和行为倾向。态度的心理结构主要包括三个因素,即认知因素、情感因素和意向因素。
态度
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Charles Swindoll 写过一本书《改变态度,改变人生》 “我们无法改变历史,也不能改变人们会以某种方法行事的事实,我们改变不了任何必然发生的事情,我们唯一可做的就是秉持一贯的态度。我确信,我的生活就是 10% 的遭遇加上90% 的态度。对你来说也是如此,我们可以决定我们的态度。”
态度
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1. 面对坏事的态度2. 对工作的态度3. 对生活的态度4. 对神的态度
态度
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• 你可以选择不失去更多
面对坏事的态度
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• 你可以选择不失去更多• 百事可乐
面对坏事的态度
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• 你可以选择不失去更多• 百事可乐
• “ 悲观者抱怨风向 乐观者期待风儿转向 而领导者则会调整风帆” -John Maxwell
面对坏事的态度
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面对坏事的态度
「態」這個字,是一個「能」加上一個「心」
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对工作的态度一家美国的咨询公司 Robert Half International 在美国 100 家大型的企业的人力资源部做的调查列出他们解雇员工的最大理由:能力差 30%无法与同事相处 17%不诚实 12 %态度消极 10%没有激情 17%执行能力不佳,或拒绝执行指令 7%其它 8%
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对工作的态度
• 工作是神的呼召 耶和华 神将那人安置在伊甸园,使他修理
,看守。 (创 2 : 15 )
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对工作的态度
• 工作是神的呼召 耶和华 神将那人安置在伊甸园,使他修理
,看守。 (创 2 : 15 )
你必汗流满面才得糊口,直到你归了土,因为你是从土而出的。你本是尘土,仍要归於尘土。(创 3 : 19 )
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对工作的态度• 工作是对家庭的责任
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对工作的态度• 工作是对家庭的责任• 人若不看顾亲属,就是背了真道,比不信
的人还不好,不看顾自己家里的人,更是如此。(提前 5 : 8 )
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对工作的态度• 不做懒惰人• 懒惰人哪,你去察看蚂蚁的动作就可得智慧。 蚂蚁没有元帅,没有官长,没有君王, 尚且在夏天预备食物,在收割时聚敛粮食。 懒惰人哪,你要睡到几时呢?你何时睡醒呢? 再睡片时,打盹片时,抱著手躺卧片时, 你的贫穷就必如强盗速来,你的缺乏彷佛拿兵器的人来到。(箴言 6 : 6-11 )
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对工作的态度
• 卓越的态度
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对工作的态度
• 卓越的态度• 卓越的定义是你的质量要好,你的产量要
多,你的工作超越一般的标准,而且常常超越自己。
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对工作的态度
• 卓越的态度• 卓越的定义是你的质量要好,你的产量要
多,你的工作超越一般的标准,而且常常超越自己。
• 十个 60分不如六个 100分
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对工作的态度
• 无论做什麽,都要从心里做,像是给主做的,不是给人做的, 因你们知道从主那里必得著基业为赏赐;你们所事奉的乃是主基督。(西 3 : 23-24 )
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对生活的态度
• 你上次好好的休息是多久以前的事?
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对生活的态度
• 你上次好好的休息是多久以前的事?• 休息是信任自己的表现
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对生活的态度
• 你上次好好的休息是多久以前的事?• 休息是信任自己的表现• 休息是体贴家人的表现
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对生活的态度
• 你上次好好的休息是多久以前的事?• 休息是信任自己的表现• 休息是体贴家人的表现• 休息是珍惜健康的表现
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对生活的态度
人格信用卡:• 开口前,想一想• 开口时,慢一慢• 开口后,修一修• 闭口后,动一动
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对神的态度• 撒上 15:1 撒母耳对扫罗说:「耶和华差遣我膏你为王,治理他的百姓以色列;所以你当听从耶和华的话。 22 撒母耳说:耶和华喜悦燔祭和平安祭,岂如喜悦人听从他的话呢?听命胜於献祭;顺从胜於公羊的脂油。 23 悖逆的罪与行邪术的罪相等;顽梗的罪与拜虚神和偶像的罪相同。你既厌弃耶和华的命令,耶和华也厌弃你作王。 24 扫罗对撒母耳说:「我有罪了,我因惧怕百姓,听从他们的话,就违背了耶和华的命令和你的言语。 16:1 耶和华对撒母耳说:「我既厌弃扫罗作以色列的王,你为他悲伤要到几时呢?你将膏油盛满了角,我差遣你往伯利恒人耶西那里去;因为我在他众子之内,预定一个作王的。」
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对神的态度• 大卫与非利士巨人哥利亚的战斗
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对神的态度• 对上帝的态度,就是要相信、顺服、和热情!
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改变态度的 5 个阶段1. 确定问题情绪
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改变态度的 5 个阶段1. 确定问题情绪2. 确定问题行为 –什么导致不当情绪?
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改变态度的 5 个阶段1. 确定问题情绪2. 确定问题行为 - 什么导致不当情绪?3. 确定问题思想 - 什么是我们关注的事?
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改变态度的 5 个阶段1. 确定问题情绪2. 确定问题行为 - 什么导致不当情绪?3. 确定问题思想 - 什么是我们关注的事?4. 确定正确思想
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改变态度的 5 个阶段1. 确定问题情绪2. 确定问题行为 - 什么导致不当情绪?3. 确定问题思想 - 什么是我们关注的事?4. 确定正确思想5. 为正确的思想做计划
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改变态度的 5 个阶段• 为正确的思想做计划1. 说正确的话2. 读正确的书3. 听正确的歌4. 看正确的电影5. 和正确的人交往6. 重复做以上的事
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