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10 of the BestLove & Relationship Tarot Spreadsby Lisa Frideborg Lloyd

10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads 2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. All rights reserved.

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INDEX

Groundhog Day Tarot Spreadp. 3 Three Types of Love Tarot Spread..p. 5 Mr & Mrs Smith Healing a Toxic Relationship..p. 8 Should I Stay or Should I Go? ..p. 11 Single and Happy Tarot Spread..p. 14 The Quickie...p. 16 The Ultimate Will He Come Back? Tarot Spread.p. 18 Lessons and Challenges Tarot Spread.p. 21 Actions Speak Louder than Words Tarot Spread..p. 23 The Relationship Pioneer Tarot Spread..p. 25

BONUS MATERIALS Yes/No Love Tarot Reading Techniques..p. 27 Will He Call? The Majors (Tarot Humour).. p. 29

ABOUT LISA & CONTACT INFO..P. 31

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Groundhog Day Tarot SpreadWe are unlikely to get relationship satisfaction through the belief that its our partner that has to change. ~ Joe Dunn and Mali Apple (from The Soulmate Experience)

Have you ever been in a relationship that is making you feel trapped and miserable? You have every intention of making things right (you do love each other), yet somehow things keep falling apart. Reactive responses are activated. Irritation, anger, anxiety, fear and pride run the show and somehow being right has become more important than being kind to your beloved. Ready to break free? Ready to establish a healthier pattern of relating? The Groundhog Tarot Spread is for you!

1. Spirit Karmic Lesson. Love flows from Spirit, as does any Karmic lessons (past life stuff). This is your main current lesson and all relationship lessons are about releasing blocks to loving! 2. You BLOCKS, current attitude/approach. This card indicates how you may be stopping the flow of love through your mental attitude. 3. Your Partner BLOCKS, current attitude/approach. This card indicates how your partner may be stopping the flow of love through his/her mental attitude. 4. Your Relationship Current pattern of relating. This card10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads 2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. All rights reserved.

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reveals a main theme. There may be more but this is the one Spirit wants to shine the spotlight on right now. 5. You NEW, more loving approach. This card shows you how you can refocus your thoughts to replace judgement with acceptance, and negativity with a positive approach or action. 6. Your Partner NEW, more loving approach. This card shows you how your partner can refocus their thoughts to replace judgement with acceptance, and negativity with a positive approach or action. 7. Result/Outcome. This is the next step on the journey, provided you act on the advice given in positions 5 & 6. Cards that can indicate Karmic issues based in past life are Judgement, The Moon, The Devil, Justice and The Wheel of Fortune. Use this spread together with your partner if at all possible. If not, then please bear in mind that you can only be responsible for your portion of what needs to be changed, and allow acceptance to replace resentment about your partners role. Focus on the love you have for him/her, rather than what annoys you and change what you can about yourself. Things will begin to change once you do this Even if your current pattern of relating is fairly healthy, there are always ways to make room for even more love in the relationship. We often insist we cant let go of things we find irritating or feel resentful about. But this idea is just another limiting belief. ~ Joe Dunn and Mali Apple

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Three Stages of Love Tarot SpreadThis spread was inspired by a dating advice article by the lovely Colette Kenney over at Huffington post. Do hop on over and read the whole thing as shes got some great questions for self-inquiry at the end of it! Caroline goes over the three stages of love:

lust attract attachment

The first stage is the initial surge of sexual energy that makes us really want the other person. Oh, if we only had them alone We cant stop fantasising about what we would do to them. The second stage is the high we get when we first fall in love. They can do no wrong and the need for sleeping and eating becomes secondary to spending time with our beloved. This stage is said to last no more than three years at the most and a good thing it is too, as many other areas of our lives risk to fall by the wayside when we are preoccupied with the object of our desire. But these two stages are doomed to fade with time and (hopefully, if you are looking for long term) settle into attachment. The attachment stage is much less frenzied. There is still warmth but were not living with constant hormone high. Colettes advice was for a woman who was looking to find The Ever Elusive One on a dating website. I reckon she and any of you out there who are looking to meet someone for lasting love could do with a bit of help Tarot to the rescue! 1. You Lust 2. Him Lust 3. You Attraction 4. Him Attraction 5. You Attachment 6. Him Attachment 7. Overall long-term potential

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Gilded Tarot Royale by Ciro Marchetti

You can use this spread to vet someone you are interested in dating, perhaps together with the Internet Dating Vetting spread,or you can use it for an already existing relationship where the first and/or second stage are already in the past:

SAMPLE READING 1. The Fool. You feel free and ready to explore a new relationship, especially with someone who is totally different to the type you normally go for in fact, the more out there the better! 2. 7 of Swords. He may have an agenda. The 7 of Swords is quite often a sign of someone with an ulterior motive.10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads 2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. All rights reserved.

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3. 4 of Swords. The attraction stage is making you feel unusually free and at peace, as if there is no worry in the world. This is probably because the initial attraction fell under the auspice of The Fool. 4. 8 of Swords. Hes not quite as comfortable though. It looks like whatever ulterior motive he entered into this isnt quite holding up. 5. The Knight of Pentacles is a good energy for long-term as its signified by steadfastness and a willingness to plod along at an even peace. Youre in this for the long haul. 6. 5 of Swords. He seems internally conflicted and the reason why is found in the final card 7. Ace of Cups. This is true love. There is unlimited potential for lasting, unconditional love. The male person in this reading is not quite there yet though and needs to let go of fear and learn to open his heart.

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Mr and Mrs Smith Healing a Toxic RelationshipThere are no happy endings. Only stories that havent finished yet. Have you ever been in what could be described as a toxic relationship? At the core of these types of relationships we discover a common denominator: lack of trust. The key to resolving toxicity and making this type of relationship work is to resolve the trust issues. In order to do that, both parties have to be willing to do the work. Where both parties are willing to do the work, there is potential for the toxic couple to flourish into an unbeatable duo who pull their strong wills together and use their passion for each other to take on the world instead of trying to destroy the other person. I affectionately refer to this spread as the Smith & Wesson, partially because the inspiration came from the film Mr & Mrs Smith and because it was at gun point they realised how much they loved each other and called a truce. I intuitively laid the cards out in a W shape. It was only when I began reading the cards that I realised the connection between the gun point allegory and the W for Wesson. It made me smile 1a*****************1b **********6********** **2a******5******2b** **********4********** ****3a*********3b**** 1a+1b. Trust issues within the self of partners A and B respectively that have carried over into this relationship from the past (childhood trauma, previous abusive relationships etc.) 2a+2b. How A holds B at gunpoint and vice versa 3a+3b. Why A feels she cant trust B (something B does) and vice versa 4. Higher reason for both parties coming together 5. What it would take for both parties to drop their guns and call a truce 6. Most likely outcome provided this advice is heeded

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Tarot of the Sidhe by Emily Carding

SAMPLE READING 1a. Past issues for partner A Maker 9 (9 of Pentacles) Root and Blossom: This person was not able to put roots down in the early years. It is possible that A moved around a lot and went to a few different schools. A still struggles with being self-sufficient and to provide for their own physical needs to some degree. She also suffers from feelings of low self-worth, as if she doesnt deserve all the good that life has to offer. 1b. Past issues for B Warrior 4 (4 of Wands) Foundations Blessed: A blighted, unsupportive and aggressive (lots of beatings) home environment during childhood and adolescence makes it difficult for B to trust people in general. He has suffered from long periods of homelessness and moving like a hobo from place to place. 2a. How A holds B at gunpoint V The Elder: She tries to change B by teaching him how things are done. She often sounds and comes across as having more knowledge, and she uses this to bludgeon her partner