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ROLES:ROLES:
Def: Certain behaviors or Def: Certain behaviors or patterns that you are patterns that you are expected to follow as a expected to follow as a result of your position or result of your position or responsibility.responsibility.
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ROLES:ROLES:
Ex. Student/Teacher, Ex. Student/Teacher, child, brother/sister, child, brother/sister, friend, teammate, etc.friend, teammate, etc.
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Learn to share with your Learn to share with your siblings!siblings!
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FACADESFACADES:
Def: False fronts or masks Def: False fronts or masks we use to give a different we use to give a different impression of ourselves.impression of ourselves.
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FACADESFACADES::
Ex. Jock, brain, tough guy, Ex. Jock, brain, tough guy, rich kid, clown, preps, rich kid, clown, preps, skaters, druggies, emo, skaters, druggies, emo, geeks, etc…. geeks, etc….
(cliques)(cliques)
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FACADESFACADES::
REASONS: REASONS:
-protection lunch box-protection lunch box
-impress -impress
-friendship/acceptance-friendship/acceptance
-low self-esteem-low self-esteem
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P.TRAITS
P.TRAITS FACADES
FACADESROLESROLES
Roles determine what traits Roles determine what traits and facades you use.and facades you use.
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SELF-ESTEEMSELF-ESTEEM::
Def. Feeling we have of Def. Feeling we have of ourselves; our self ourselves; our self worth. worth.
(clone)(clone)
$ (self talk)$ (self talk)
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SELF-ESTEEMSELF-ESTEEM::
Reasons for high or low self-Reasons for high or low self-esteem?esteem?
Egotism- too high a level of Egotism- too high a level of self-esteem.self-esteem.
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Believe in yourself!Believe in yourself!
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Be brave!Be brave!
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SELF-ESTEEM:SELF-ESTEEM:
Ways to improve?Ways to improve?1 Identity1 Identity
2 Belongingness2 Belongingness
3 Competence3 Competence
4 Boundaries4 Boundaries
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Michael Jordan and failure!Michael Jordan and failure!
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PEER PRESSURE:PEER PRESSURE:
Def: doing something Def: doing something because others your because others your own ageown age influence you; influence you; or you or you thinkthink they expect they expect you to do it.you to do it.
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ComCome on e on guysguys, it’ll , it’ll be be
fun!fun!
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PEER PRESSURE:PEER PRESSURE:
75% of the time we give in.75% of the time we give in.
Why?Why?
90% of the time=bad!90% of the time=bad!
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PEER PRESSURE:PEER PRESSURE:
How to How to AVOIDAVOID?:?:
““No”, change subject, No”, change subject, walk away,better walk away,better friends, excuses….friends, excuses….