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1 ROLES: ROLES: Def: Certain behaviors Def: Certain behaviors or patterns that you or patterns that you are expected to follow are expected to follow as a result of your as a result of your position or position or responsibility. responsibility.

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ROLES:ROLES:

Def: Certain behaviors or Def: Certain behaviors or patterns that you are patterns that you are expected to follow as a expected to follow as a result of your position or result of your position or responsibility.responsibility.

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ROLES:ROLES:

Ex. Student/Teacher, Ex. Student/Teacher, child, brother/sister, child, brother/sister, friend, teammate, etc.friend, teammate, etc.

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Learn to share with your Learn to share with your siblings!siblings!

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FACADESFACADES:

Def: False fronts or masks Def: False fronts or masks we use to give a different we use to give a different impression of ourselves.impression of ourselves.

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FACADESFACADES::

Ex. Jock, brain, tough guy, Ex. Jock, brain, tough guy, rich kid, clown, preps, rich kid, clown, preps, skaters, druggies, emo, skaters, druggies, emo, geeks, etc…. geeks, etc….

(cliques)(cliques)

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FACADESFACADES::

REASONS: REASONS:

-protection lunch box-protection lunch box

-impress -impress

-friendship/acceptance-friendship/acceptance

-low self-esteem-low self-esteem

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P.TRAITS

P.TRAITS FACADES

FACADESROLESROLES

Roles determine what traits Roles determine what traits and facades you use.and facades you use.

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SELF-ESTEEMSELF-ESTEEM::

Def. Feeling we have of Def. Feeling we have of ourselves; our self ourselves; our self worth. worth.

(clone)(clone)

$ (self talk)$ (self talk)

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SELF-ESTEEMSELF-ESTEEM::

Reasons for high or low self-Reasons for high or low self-esteem?esteem?

Egotism- too high a level of Egotism- too high a level of self-esteem.self-esteem.

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Believe in yourself!Believe in yourself!

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Be brave!Be brave!

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SELF-ESTEEM:SELF-ESTEEM:

Ways to improve?Ways to improve?1 Identity1 Identity

2 Belongingness2 Belongingness

3 Competence3 Competence

4 Boundaries4 Boundaries

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Michael Jordan and failure!Michael Jordan and failure!

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PEER PRESSURE:PEER PRESSURE:

Def: doing something Def: doing something because others your because others your own ageown age influence you; influence you; or you or you thinkthink they expect they expect you to do it.you to do it.

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ComCome on e on guysguys, it’ll , it’ll be be

fun!fun!

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PEER PRESSURE:PEER PRESSURE:

75% of the time we give in.75% of the time we give in.

Why?Why?

90% of the time=bad!90% of the time=bad!

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PEER PRESSURE:PEER PRESSURE:

How to How to AVOIDAVOID?:?:

““No”, change subject, No”, change subject, walk away,better walk away,better friends, excuses….friends, excuses….