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Personal Argumentation
It is OK to Lose
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Types of Argumentative Behaviors
Nonassertive
Passive, with limited self confidence agrees to what others want.
No comfortable solution
Lose/Win Situation
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Types of Argumentative Behaviors
Aggressive
Hostile, that will focus only on this person getting what they want regardless of others feelings
Short term solution
Win/Lose Situation
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Types of Argumentative Behaviors
Cooperative, finding solutions that work for all involved
Long term solution
Win/Win Situation
Assertive
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Types of Argumentative Behaviors
Aggressive Nonassertive
Lose/Win
Assertive
Win/WinWin/Lose
Indirect Aggression Whiners
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What do you think of when you hear the word…argument?
Defining Argumentation
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Types of Conflicts
Simple
Pseudo
Ego
Subject or Topic oriented
Communication breakdown
Personality differences
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Constructive arguing is the key to a successful relationship
Defining Argumentation
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Common Traps
Unresolved Issues
Failure to stick to issues
Relationship Argumentation
Garbage Bagging
Winning at all costs
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Why Can’t We Lose?
Arguing tied to our self esteem
Relationship Argumentation
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Why Can’t We Lose?
Relationship Argumentation
It is ok to lose an argument
That is how we grow
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An argument is a positive communication activity that seeks to resolve a disagreement
Defining Argumentation
Write about positive aspects of arguing. That
is arguing is one of the key reasons for a su
ccessful relationship
There are reasons why our arguments end negatively
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