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We Are Family Conference – 12.09.15

Family Well-Being and Wholeness

21 April 2023 1

The Good Childhood Report 2015

Children’s own assessment of their lives

Two key elements

Well-being not well-becoming. Childhood in it’s own right!

How and why do we measure it?

The well-being consultations

The Children’s Society

Subjective Well-Being

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Understanding Children’s Subjective Well-Being.

Childhood in its Own Right!

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Understanding Children’s Subjective Well-Being.

Childhood in its Own Right!

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Understanding Children’s Subjective Well-Being.

Childhood in its Own Right!

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The Good Childhood Report 2015

Children’s own assessment of their lives

Two key elements

Well-being not well-becoming. Childhood in it’s own right!

How and why do we measure it?

The well-being consultations

The Children’s Society

Subjective Well-Being

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Most significant impact on children’s lives

• Relationships

• Money and Things

• Choice

CORES Skills Booklet – Guidance, references and hand-outs

Good Childhood Report 2015

Post-it Questions

Today’s Session

Family Well-Being and Wholeness

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Priorities Activity.

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“Relationships are at the heart of children’s well-being” The Good Childhood report 2015

“Like finding treasure” The Good Childhood Inquiry 2007

Children with recent experiences of being bullied have significantly and substantially lower than average subjective well-being. The Good Childhood report 2015

Quality relationships

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“I don’t think kids need money to be happy if they have good relationships”

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“Children need time not stuff” BBC news 2011 – UNICEF report

Children talk about the importance of ‘having enough’ and ‘fitting in.’

“Some parents think

that buying stuff for

your kids is being a

good parent, but it’s

more about spending

time with them and

doing stuff together”

Page 59 – Relationships hand-out, including useful links

Page 61, 62 - NEF’s 5 Ways to Family Well-being

Page 56 - 57, Relationship building prompt questions

Good Childhood Reports – available on The Children’s Society website

Relationships and Money and Things

Further reading

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Pick and Mix Activity.

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Why is Choice Important?

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Who got a bounty?

Happiness with choice drops from 8-15

Perceived autonomy within the family

Feeling listened to

Enshrined in law

Do you feel listened to by the church?

I don’t really know if they

listen. I’ve never been asked.”

14 year old boy, local consultation

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How does the Church listen to children, young people and families?

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Any unanswered questions?

Aspects of life with greatest influence on cyps well-being.

• Relationships

• Money and things

• Choice

Feeling listened to and valued.

Church, family…

Family Well-Being and Wholeness

Through Young Eyes

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Charity Registration No. 221124

http://www.childrenssociety.org.uk/what-we-do/research/well-being

www.childrenssociety.org.uk

Helen Maitland and Cath Morris