Vicious cycle final 6 30-2010

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Discover the habits, behaviors and beliefs that keep you from achieving your goals and dreams!

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Vicious Cycleof

Chaos and Disorder

Definitions

Shift - The release of energy that you can feel that causes you to move one direction or the other

Definitions

Vicious Cycle of Chaos and Disorder: A cycle of negative

emotions and actions that breeds chaos in our homes

Vortex: Any activity, or state of affairs, situation, that

resembles a whirl or eddy in its rush, absorbing effect,

irresistible and catastrophic power

We will learn…

To uncover the cyclic nature of negative conditions in our

homes.

Identify possible vortexes in our lives that may contribute to the vicious cycle of chaos

and disorder.

How to create a shift of energy at home.

Vortexes

• Vortexes in nature range from dust-devils to

tornados and hurricanes.

• A negative vortex may be seen in the physical

condition of your home when it is chaotic and

cluttered.

You feel the negative energy as it projects and

reacts .

This produces more negative energy, and the vicious cycle has begun.

Vicious Cycle

•We call this the Vicious Cycle of Chaos and

Disorder. • This confusion within your environment causes you to have a constant influence

of negativity.

Vicious Cycle

Over time, you begin to have feelings of guilt, judgment, poor self-esteem, shame, and

hopelessness.

Negative Energy

You function daily within this vortex, making

important decisions.

This is why many of your decisions can bring you failure.

You have absorbed the energy of your

environment and acted in the same

manner.

Manifestations

Living in this environment hides

the truth of who your are.You begin to accept

the environment as a further confirmation of

your dwindling self-esteem.

Manifestations

It becomes harder to be organized,

accomplish tasks and work efficiently.

Manifestations

Children growing up in this kind of

environment are influenced by it and often copy the same pattern of chaos and

disorder.

Beliefs• “I don't care.”

• “I can't even make a dent in this mess.”

• “I'm keeping people from ever coming through my front door.”

• “I'm not worth it.” 

Generational Systems

Definitions• Family System - current or

extended family that you are connected with

• Generational System - The way the family systems impact the individual

• Depression Era Mentality - The attitude passed from the 1930's of deprivation and scarcity

Learn how your life has been shaped by your Generational System.

Reverse generations of behavioral patterns that don’t serve you in the

present.

Things to Ponder

Which habits did your grandparents have that might have influenced your parents?

Which habits of your mother, father, or guardian influenced

you in your childhood environment?

Things to Ponder

Which habits of your parents or guardian do you think

influenced the way that you take care of your physical

environment today?  

Which habits of your grandparents/parents/guardian have you passed down

to your children?

Our family history makes

a deeper impression on

us than we realize.

Many of our thoughts, beliefs,

behaviors and emotions can

be easily traced to our

parents, grandparents

and ancestors.

Learn to handle

negative thoughts, beliefs,

behaviors and

emotions associate

d with your

Generational

Systems.

Beliefs

We often retain the beliefs that we learn

in childhood through our family and generational

systems.

These beliefs can be positive and beneficial or negative and detrimental.

Beliefs

These beliefs often

operate in the

background and go

unnoticed; we are “hard-

wired” with these

beliefs.

Generational System You may find

yourself in situations

and circumstance

s that are similar to

those of your mother and

father. If you talk with

them about it, you will probably

discover that similar

situations and

circumstances were in

your grandparents

’ lives as well.

Generational System

Until you understand and handle your own

personal Generational System you won’t break the chain of events that keep occurring for you

and your family.

Negative Generational Systems

Negative beliefs and behaviors attract

negative conditions and situations.

Unconsciously operating from a place of lack

and difficulty in life, will attract more of the

same.

Negative Beliefs“You are so

slow!”“You are messy!”“Why can’t you

understand this?”

“You better work hard or you

will never get anywhere.”

“You better behave

yourself.”“What were you

thinking?”

Negative BeliefsEach of these

statements carry an implied message.

“You are not good enough.”

“You are not smart.”“Life is always hard.”“You won’t succeed.”

“You are not beautiful.”

“You have limited value.”

Depression Era Mentality

For many of us our Generation Systems are influenced by the Great

Depression.

Feelings of scarcity run rampant within our homes even after years and

years of prosperity.

Depression Era Mentality

These feelings carry over from our grandparents or parents who lived

through it and experienced great

sacrifice and suffering.

Depression Era Mentality

These Generation Systems may be the root cause of behaviors that block

your happiness and success such as:“I need to hang onto these things in

case of an emergency.” “We can’t afford to……….”

“Eat everything on your plate.”“Don’t get rid of that, its perfectly

good.”“We need more food in the house.”

When we come from a place of lack and scarcity

we have a tendency to cling to possessions,

which inevitably leads to clutter.

Remember that the clutter takes up your space and

prevents you from experiencing a shift in

energy.

ScarcityA feeling of scarcity also drives us to

take on more activities and tasks than are

necessary. When we live in

fear of lack of money and success we

tend to clutter our minds

with numerous

details as we chase after

financial freedom.

Abundance

We will learn how to live in

abundance through our Radiating Points and

through cleaning and clearing out.

Positive Beliefs

Positive beliefs can be established at any time in

life. We are not only able to teach

our children, but we can also neutralize any negative belief

systems we have from our own childhood.

We can help others neutralize negative systems as well.

This can be accomplished when we remember our own value, and the value of others while living our lives with our Radiating Points.

Positive Beliefs“Please wash your bowl so that we can

keep the house

beautiful.”“Lets find a

way to afford that.”

“We have the time for

this.”“We have

exactly what we want and

need.”“Our house is

one of order, joy and beauty.”